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It's Not You, It's (Monoga)Me with Låpsley

Season 3, Ep. 3

This week we speak to singer-songwriter and absolute angel, Låpsley! In a Bottoming first, we talk sex and relationships (!), her feelings and experience with social media alongside her creative journey, returning to university to study again, and so much more. There's also an extra-special appearance from the superstar that is Peanut, Låpsley's doggy companion.


Before that though, we catch up on how we've been recently, after both experiencing a little dip in our mental health, we talk our favourite horror films (it is Spooky Szn after all!) and our new regular item - our positive highlights of the week.


Check out linktr.ee/bottomingpod, follow on Instagram and Twitter to see NEW BTS video content at @bottomingpod and find more resources from this season at bottomingpodcast.com.

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