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Don't Hug It Out (Part 1)

Season 6, Ep. 18

In this special two-part episode, Rachel and Suzanne explain why in any argument, the solution is never just to "hug it out." In part one, they share their stories of past interpersonal conflicts and breaches of trust, and why the only way out of a disagreement is through.

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