Amiga, Handle Your Shit

Is it possible to honor our Latino heritage while challenging cultural expectations?First-generation Americans develop a massive sense of appreciation for their parents' grit and sacrifice to forge a promising future for their families. But what happens when that appreciation and gratitude becomes a cage that curtails who they are or want to become?In this episode, I'm joined by Luis Cornejo, a dynamic Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist specializing in supporting LGBTQ+ and BIPOC communities in his private practice, PsychoSocial Media. Luis, aka the Queer Magic Maker, is also the Host of the Queer Magic podcast, an Indigiqueer Model and fashion enthusiast, and the Founder of Queer Magic Entertainment.Tune in to Episode 206 of Amiga, Handle Your Shit, and learn more about Luis' inspiring story and how acceptance and embracing his true identity boosted his self-confidence and connected him with a new paradigm in his professional career. You'll also hear Luis' thoughts on navigating cultural expectations, finding joy beyond comparison, adopting an abundance mindset, practicing self-care consistently, and much more.In This Episode, You Will Learn:A bit about Luis' background and upbringing (5:00)The challenges of self-acceptance and a transition into a new career path (7:20)The joy of embracing self-expression and fashion (26:00)About Luis' practice's growth and expansion (33:40)Luis shares two valuable tips for amigas to handle their s#it (35:00)Connect with Luis Cornejo:WebsiteInstagramListen to the Queer Magic PodcastLet's Connect!WebsiteFacebookInstagramLinkedInJackie Tapia Arbonne website

Are you open to the idea of divine inspiration guiding your path? In this episode, Jackie sits down with Xitlalt Herrera to explore the transformative power of faith, connection, and inspired purpose. As Jackie navigates her recent book tour, she reflects on the journey of sharing her work and the profound influence of community support and God’s guidance. Her experiences remind us of the importance of embracing the people and moments that lift us, providing strength when we need it most.Xitlalt Herrera, Founder and CEO of X Level Inc., is an inspiring entrepreneur and creative director with over 22 years in fashion and entertainment, including 15 years at Neiman Marcus. Known for her expertise in brand reinvention, Xitlalt works across private and nonprofit sectors, guiding people and brands with authenticity. She’s also an award-winning producer, public speaker, and dedicated philanthropist, actively supporting organizations in San Antonio, New York, LA, and Latin America.Tune in to Episode 205 of Amiga, Handle Your Shit, as Jackie and Xitlalt Herrera recount the beautiful encounters, heartfelt connections, and moments of clarity from the Omega Way Academy book tour. They discuss the importance of supportive friendships, faith-driven work, and the impact of creating spaces that empower women. Whether you’re seeking spiritual encouragement or simply a reminder of the power of connection, this episode will resonate with you.Join the Amiga Way Academy NOW!In This Episode, You Will Learn:Divine inspiration often appears through connections and community support.Creating spaces for women to connect can fuel growth and self-discovery.Faith-driven work has the power to elevate our lives and those around us.Embracing God’s guidance opens doors to unexpected blessings.Connect With Xitlalt Herrera:InstagramX Level Inc WebsiteX Level Inc. Instagram Let's Connect!WebsiteFacebookInstagramLinkedInJackie Tapia Arbonne websiteBuy The Amiga Way’s Book

Are you a first-time homebuyer and feel clueless about whether or not you qualify for a mortgage?The benefits of making good decisions in the mortgage and real estate world are massive, yet navigating the intricacies of that constantly evolving world might feel overwhelming. Yet it doesn't have to be like that; you can always get professionals' help, skip the headaches, and enjoy the benefits.In this episode, I'm joined by Natalie Fernandez, a Multipreneur, Mother of three, Wife, a seasoned Mortgage Broker with over 16 years of experience, and Sales Manager and Outside Loan Originator at Team Fernandez CrossCountry Mortgage.Tune in to Episode 204 of Amiga, Handle Your Shit, and get Natalie's expert insight on home ownership, how to navigate the current real estate market efficiently, and what it's like balancing business and family in a fast-paced and demanding industry. You'll also hear about the evolution of Natalie's career in lending, Natalie's thoughts on investor loans and property flipping, and first-time homebuyer programs and ITIN loans.Plus, Natalie talks about the housing market's trends, Federal interest rate cuts and mortgage rates, real estate investment strategies, and much more!In This Episode, You Will Learn:A bit about Natalie's background and family history (2:30)About Natalie's hands-on approach with new loan officers (10:10)What should first-time homebuyers be mindful of? (15:00)Natalie talks about current market conditions and investment strategies (21:20)Everything you need to know about first-time homebuyers and ITIN loans (27:00)Natalie on work-life balance. Working with your spouse can also be fun and joyful (31:00)Connect with Natalie Fernandez:WebsiteInstagramFacebookLet's Connect!WebsiteFacebookInstagramLinkedInJackie Tapia Arbonne website

Apart from putting ourselves in an uncomfortable position, opening ourselves makes us inevitably vulnerable. Yet if we come from the right place, we'll see it also gives power and courage to others and, most importantly, hope.Know that whatever it is you're going through, you're not alone.In today's special episode, we celebrate The Amiga Way, my book, becoming an Amazon best-seller in 11 categories in just under five months! To honor this massive accolade in my career, we revisit my conversation with Christina Igaraividez and Ilona Pamplona on the day of the launch.In this first installment of the five-hour live stream, you'll hear all about the creative process that birthed this book, and the life-changing potential of storytelling.Ilona is an Emotional Manifestor, Life Coach, and the Author of "Human Design Made Easy" and "This Journal Is Your Mood Ring." Christina is a Writer, Performer, Content Creator, and Storytelling Coach who taught storytelling at The Ruby and Second City and won multiple StorySlam competitions at the Moth and the Moth Mainstage as a performer.Tune in to Episode 202 of Amiga, Handle Your Shit, and enjoy this unfiltered conversation with two Amigas who helped me turn this dream into a book, and get irrefutable evidence that your tragedy can become your treasure and, therefore, your testimony.Buy my book, The Amiga Way, on Amazon today!In This Episode, You Will Learn:A bit about Jackie's challenges and insights in writing her book (14:00)Why play and creativity are crucial for personal growth (24:20)Christina shares her thoughts on storytelling (32:00)Ilona explains how Astrology and Human Design can help individuals understand their desires (36:00)The thrill of getting paid while having fun (45:40)Connect with Christina Igaraividez:InstagramWebsiteStorytelling CoachingAudible Original: Talking While Female & Other Dangerous ActsConnect with Ilona Pamplona:InstagramTiktokBook an appointment with IlonaLet's Connect!WebsiteFacebookInstagramLinkedInJackie Tapia Arbonne website

Have you ever wondered what it truly takes to turn a dream into reality?In this episode, we dive into a journey marked by perseverance, resilience, and the power of family support. From moving to the United States to establishing a successful boutique, this story will inspire you to chase your dreams no matter the challenges you face.Zulema Rosas is a passionate entrepreneur who arrived in Los Angeles from Mexico at the age of 17, carrying her dreams and hopes for a brighter future for herself and her family. Inspired by her deep admiration for her culture and a love for fashion, she founded Moniso Boutique, a boutique that transforms lives and empowers individuals through clothing. Moniso Boutique is more than just a store; it’s a tribute to Latin culture, where contemporary trends meet designs inspired by the richness and diversity of Latin American roots. With the unwavering support of her husband, daughters, and her beautiful community, Zulema continues to weave dreams together and celebrate the vibrant spirit of her heritage.Tune in to Episode 201 of Amiga, Handle Your Shit, as Zulema shares her remarkable journey from Mexico to the United States and the hurdles she overcame to build her dream boutique. She emphasizes the importance of staying connected to your roots, valuing family, and believing in yourself even when the odds are stacked against you. This episode is a testament to the power of hard work and the unwavering support of loved ones in achieving your goals.Join me at my Libros y Mezcal event: save your spot now!In This Episode, You Will Learn:Zulema’s journey from Mexico to the United States and her cultural adjustment.The challenges and triumphs of starting a boutique business from scratch.How family support played a crucial role in Zulema’s entrepreneurial journey.Advice for aspiring entrepreneurs on staying persistent and motivated.The significance of staying true to your dreams despite obstacles.Connect with Zulema Rosas:Moniso Boutique WebsiteZulema’s Instagram Let's Connect!WebsiteFacebookInstagramLinkedInJackie Tapia Arbonne websiteBuy The Amiga Way’s Book

What if I told you not everything has to be hard work and excruciating sacrifices? There are ways of turning what you like doing into your breadwinner without working yourself to exhaustion.In this episode, I'm joined by the Content Creator, Founder, Mother of two, and Entrepreneur, Roxy Limon. Roxy is a fourth-generation American who discovered her passion for fashion as a little girl. It didn't take long before she was sharing outfits of her creation online, and even less to build a solid following. From that point on, it was all about being smart and keeping herself ahead of the pack, learning to anticipate trends, and maximizing time and resources to shape her success as an incredibly influential content creator and entrepreneur.Tune in to Episode 200 of Amiga, Handle Your Shit, and learn more about Roxy Limon's fascinating story from creating outfits for fun to running a successful YouTube channel. Roxy also shares her thoughts on AI, the right time for creators to buy equipment, and what to focus on when transforming their passion into a business. Roxy also talks about her experiences with brand sponsorship, she shares valuable tips and advice on how to prevent common pitfalls in the content creation world, and much more.In This Episode, You Will Learn:About Roxy's content creation journey (3:20)Roxy talks about her transition from blogging to creating content for YouTube (6:30)Roxy shares advice for content creators at the beginning of their journey (8:40)About monetizing content and brand sponsorship (14:00)Adapting to new technologies and AI (20:10)What's next in Roxy's life (24:50)Connect with Roxy Limon:WebsiteInstagramYouTubeTikTokFacebookRoxy's linktr.eeLet's Connect!WebsiteFacebookInstagramLinkedInJackie Tapia Arbonne website

Are you ready to hear how passion, perseverance, and mindset can transform dreams into reality? In this episode, we dive into the journey of building a successful jewelry brand while overcoming challenges and staying true to one’s vision. Discover the importance of maintaining a positive outlook, believing in yourself, and embracing a growth mindset in the face of adversity. Whether you're a dreamer or just looking for inspiration, this conversation will resonate deeply with you.In 2022, founder Estefania launched Dreamer Jewels shortly after earning her M.S. in Applied Behavior Analysis and working as a Behavior Therapist for children with autism. When she took a leave of absence to care for her mother, Estefania began to reflect on her personal goals and found the courage to pursue her dream of starting a jewelry brand. After sharing the idea with her sister Paulina, a Political Science student and advocate for victims of domestic violence, Paulina not only embraced the vision but also decided to join as her business partner. That moment marked the birth of Dreamer Jewels.Tune in to Episode 199 of Amiga, Handle Your Shit, as Estefania and Paulina, founders of Dreamer Jewels, share their entrepreneurial story of launching their jewelry brand. They talk about the challenges Estefania faced as a DACA recipient, their journey toward creating a storefront, and the importance of community. Listen as they offer valuable tips on staying grounded, cultivating positivity, and embracing your path, no matter where you start. Their story is a testament to the power of resilience, hard work, and the belief that anything is possible when you set your mind to it.In This Episode, You Will Learn:The inspiration behind Dreamer JewelsChallenges faced as a DACA recipientThe importance of a growth mindset and positivityBuilding community and making a lasting impactTips on handling self-doubt and following your heartThe significance of mindset in achieving successConnect with Estefania & Paulina:Dreamer Jewel WebsiteDreamer Jewels Instagram Let's Connect!WebsiteFacebookInstagramLinkedInJackie Tapia Arbonne website

It doesn't matter how hard it is for you as a first-generation American; your ancestors certainly had it way harder than you, and there's a lot you can learn from their experience.In this episode, I'm joined by someone who not only figured out how to handle his shit but also managed to give back to his community and his family in the process, Rudy Lopez. Rudy is a first-generation American, the son of a Mexican Dad and a Salvadorean Mom, who, thanks to his old folks' efforts and teachings, managed to study, graduate, and have several experiences in Corporate America before realizing he was destined to be an entrepreneur, just like his parents.Tune in to Episode 198 of Amiga, Handle Your Shit, and learn about Rudy's incredible journey from working for the Screen Actors Guild to buying his parents' company and becoming a successful entrepreneur. Rudy also talks about how challenging running a business can be in California, his strategies to build resilience and portray himself as a confident businessman despite being an introvert, and so much more.In This Episode, You Will Learn:A bit about Rudy's background and upbringing (3:20)How entrepreneurship got into Rudy's life (9:30)Rudy talks about the challenges of finding a good fit when hiring (17:40)The importance of keeping a growing mentality in business (24:00)Why developing self-confidence is crucial as an entrepreneur (29:40)Rudy shares his advice on how amigas can handle their shit (33:00)Connect with Rudy Lopez:WebsiteLinkedInEmail: customerservice@socalindustries.comLet's Connect!WebsiteFacebookInstagramLinkedInJackie Tapia Arbonne website