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23. Personal Growth - How divorce led this mum to creating a new identify and building a business focused on helping others through divorce

Ep. 23

In this episode I talk to Sherille Marquez, a lady who supports divorced women based on her own personal experience. Sherille starts by guiding me through her story of moving to the US from the Philippines as an 8 year old child, growing up and excelling academically and then leaving home at 18 and forging her own path after disagreements with family. From there we touch on the relationship chain, her experience of divorce after finding out her husband was having an affair, and the dark period she entered and how it took years for her to find herself and create a new identity. And then we take the conversation to what she's doing now with her coaching business in support of women and her tips for life.

To connect with Sherille you can find her at the following places: 

Website: https://sherillemarquez.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sherillemarquez/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sherillemarqueztransformationalcoach

Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/sherillemarquez/ 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sherillemarquez

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SherilleMarquez -- Looking to find more freedom in your life by freeing up time or creating your own online business?  Get 5 free chapters of my bestselling book "Finally Find Freedom" by joining the community at https://www.philipwride.com 

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