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Episode 20: Releasing Need For Control

Ep. 20

I feel called out by this title. This week, I discuss how much of our stress is caused by a perceived need to be in control. And how unnecessary it is to carry all of that worry! When we release the need for control, then what would happen? Could amazing things, that we might never have dreamed of, find their way to us? Join me to learn to release our inner control freak.

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