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153. Being able to see life more clearly, early sobriety and digging in with Fiona McIntyre

In this episode I catch up with Fiona McIntyre who has just finished the HIQA 6 week challenge. We talk about changing your life by doing the work. The self healing process and stepping into a new life.


Link to RAIN technique we discussed.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wm1t5FyK5Ek&t=109s



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If you are struggling with physical dependancy on alcohol consider contacting a local AA meeting or a drug and alcohol therapist. Always consult a GP before stopping alcohol. 

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