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274. #274: Netflix Psychology Host Explains How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others - Jemma Sbeg
48:34||Ep. 274Why is it so hard to stop comparing yourself to others?In this episode, I speak with Jemma Sbeg, host of The Psychology of Your 20s, a #1 global podcast with over 50 million listens, now streaming on Netflix.We explore why comparison has become so unavoidable, and how it can leave you feeling behind, stuck, and disconnected from your own life.This episode will change how you think about comparison and help you stop chasing someone else’s version of success.Jemma Sbeg is a mental health advocate and host of The Psychology of Your 20s.Timestamps: (00:00) Introduction - Why Comparison Hurts(01:25) Stuck in the Template(02:42) Stay in Your Lane(05:01) Circle Not Ladder(06:47) Too Many Options(07:51) Nick’s Business Detours(10:37) Why Twenties Feel Hard(13:36) Be Present in Your Chapter(16:46) Success Doesn’t Fix You(20:45) Reading for Balance(23:29) The Optimization Trap(25:57) Common Sense Over Optimizing(27:29) Health Trends And Irony(28:06) Looksmaxxing And Male Pressure(33:14) Resilience Through Failure(38:08) Success Without Quitting(39:33) Podcast Fame And Pressure(43:53) Dream Bigger And Imposter Syndrome(46:39) Where To Find The Show(47:25) Advice To Younger Self(48:06) Final ThanksConnect with Nick:Instagram: https://instagram.com/nickbracksWebsite: http://nickbracks.comEmail: contact@nickbracks.comConnect with Jemma:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thatpsychologypodcast/Website: https://www.psychologyofyour20s.com/
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273. #273: Green Beret Explains Why Modern Life Leaves People Feeling Empty - Mike Glover
58:30||Ep. 273Why does modern life leave so many people feeling empty?In this episode, I speak with Mike Glover, a former Green Beret and CIA contractor.We explore why comfort, instant gratification, and modern convenience may be making people feel more lost, disconnected, and unfulfilled.We talk about purpose, discipline, self-reliance, and why many people don’t change until they’re faced with crisis, regret, or mortality.This episode will challenge the way you think about comfort and what it takes to build a meaningful life.Mike Glover is a former Green Beret and CIA contractor, and founder of Fieldcraft Survival.Timestamps:(00:00) Introduction(00:25) Comfort Breeds Complacency(01:24) Outsourced Self-Reliance(03:00) Instant Gratification Trap(04:53) Mortality And Discomfort(06:26) Back To Basics Purpose(07:43) Quitting Alcohol And Self-Love(12:15) Groupthink And Peer Pressure(15:16) Adversity Builds Purpose(17:14) Money Status And Grind Culture(20:37) Midlife Crisis Programming(24:27) Faith, Family And Foundation(28:03) Family Over Identity(30:22) Meaning Without Religion(30:27) Stoicism as Structure(31:52) Why We Need Foundations(33:42) Rebellion and Trauma(34:30) Operators Master Basics(36:34) Social Media and Shortcuts(37:23) The 10,000 Hour Reality(41:26) Failure Builds Growth(43:05) Ten Year Bible Plan(45:30) Instant Gratification Trap(49:01) Marbles and Priorities(53:22) Military Path and Discipline(56:49) Be Present and Final ThoughtsConnect with Nick:Instagram: https://instagram.com/nickbracksWebsite: http://nickbracks.comEmail: contact@nickbracks.comConnect with Mike:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mike.a.glover/Website: https://mikegloveractual.com/
272. #272: NFL Hopeful GETS PARALYZED In Car Crash, What He Does Next Is Shocking - Jason Cooper
52:04||Ep. 272What would you do if you were told you might never walk again?In this episode, I speak with Jason Cooper, a former high school athlete chasing his dream of playing college football...until a car crash in 2019 left him paralyzed from the neck down. We explore what goes through your mind when everything changes overnight - your identity, your future, and the life you thought you were meant to live.Jason shares the moment he hit rock bottom in a hospital room, the decision that changed everything, and how he began rebuilding his life step by step, mentally and physically.Today, he walks with the help of crutches, trains relentlessly, and is pushing himself to new limits, proving what’s possible when you refuse to accept your limitations.If you’ve ever felt lost, stuck, or unsure if you’re still on the right path, this conversation will change how you see your life.Jason Cooper is an athlete, personal trainer, and speaker who is now pushing to set records as a paraplegic athlete.Timestamps: (00:00) Introduction: Paralyzed Overnight(00:23) Meet Jason Cooper(01:15) The Car Crash Story(03:21) Fear And Growth(05:07) Rehab Mindset Shift(08:18) Doctors Prognosis(09:45) Faith And Training(12:59) Purpose And Fatherhood(16:52) No Losses, Just Lessons(20:35) Greatness Takes Time(21:42) Relentless Work Ethic(24:03) Family Motivation(25:42) Mobility Comeback(26:51) Ignoring the Haters(27:21) Compete With Yourself(28:21) Consistency and Accountability(28:48) Rock Bottom to Faith(30:13) Obsessed With the Craft(32:04) Process Over Popularity(33:19) Mind Over Body(36:05) Athletes and Mental Health(39:36) Time Is Precious(41:29) Disability and Independence(43:37) No Regrets After the Car Crash(45:55) Recovery Progress Update(49:08) Where to Find Jason(49:45) Advice and What Happiness Means(51:28) Final ThanksConnect with Nick:Instagram: https://instagram.com/nickbracksWebsite: http://nickbracks.comEmail: contact@nickbracks.comConnect with Jason:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coop.__13
271. #271: Why You Keep Choosing The Wrong People - Jessica Baum
56:08||Ep. 271Why do you keep choosing the wrong people?In this episode, I speak with Jessica Baum, a psychotherapist, relationship coach, and author of Anxiously Attached.We explore why you keep choosing the wrong people and what that reveals about your deeper relationship patterns.We unpack how early experiences shape who you’re drawn to, why unhealthy relationships feel familiar, and why you keep repeating the same patterns, even when you want something different.This episode will change how you understand attraction, intimacy, and the patterns that keep you stuck.Jessica Baum is a psychotherapist and relationship coach specializing in attachment, trauma, and building secure, healthy relationships.Timestamps:(00:00) Introduction: Why We Crave Unhealthy Love(00:34) Implicit Memory and Familiar Trauma(02:16) Nervous System and Attachment Reactions(05:14) Healing With Secure Anchors(06:39) Intensity Versus Safety in Love(12:13) Beyond Codependency to Interdependence(16:00) Healing Alone Myth and Support(20:04) After Trauma Rebuilding Trust(23:16) Modern Dating Apps and Choice Overload(25:23) Kids Marriage and Conscious Choices(29:39) Jessica Baum Origin Story(30:18) Therapy Path and Attachment(32:40) Healing as a Clinician(34:06) Hospitalized Anxiety Story(36:21) Books That Saved Her(38:04) Purpose Behind Writing(39:14) Safe Book Breakdown(41:38) No Quick Fix Healing(43:51) Life Beyond Relationships(45:18) First Steps to Start(47:04) Workaholism and Balance(51:24) Advice to Younger Self(53:08) What Happiness Means(55:02) Final Thanks and OutroConnect with Nick:Instagram: https://instagram.com/nickbracksWebsite: http://nickbracks.comEmail: contact@nickbracks.comConnect with Jessica:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jessicabaumlmhc/Website: https://jessicabaumlmhc.com/
270. #270: FINALLY, THIS Is What Society Gets WRONG About Men's Struggles - George from The Tin Men
57:48||Ep. 270Why are so many men struggling in silence?In this episode, I speak with George from The Tin Men, a writer and advocate focused on the hidden realities of men’s mental health.We discuss why suicide is the biggest risk to men under 50, what society keeps getting wrong about men’s struggles, and why “just talking about it” isn’t enough.We explore the structural issues that can leave men feeling trapped, unheard, and hopeless - from relationship breakdown and abuse to shame, purpose, and the lack of support.George is the creator of The Tin Men, a platform dedicated to highlighting the overlooked issues affecting men and boys.Timestamps:(00:00) Introduction - Men Under 50 Suicide Risk(00:30) Beyond Just Talking(01:38) Structural Disadvantages List(03:28) Finland’s Suicide Blueprint(06:02) Why Governments Don’t Act(07:51) Politics And Vote Incentives(11:30) Psychache And External Triggers(15:27) Relationship Breakdown Statistics(17:19) Coping Mechanisms And Self Harm(19:11) Why Men Die More Often(23:38) Provider Pressure And Meaning(25:37) Male Victims Of Domestic Abuse(28:35) Psychological Abuse And Control(30:26) Parental Alienation Mention(30:40) Parental Alienation Debate(32:03) Joint Custody Changes(33:48) Custody Trauma and Suicide(36:04) Dads as Role Models(38:43) Myths About Crying(41:50) Help Over Slogans(44:45) Therapy That Works for Men(49:24) Grassroots Mens Support(51:49) Empathy for Addiction and Pain(55:28) Wrap Up and AdviceConnect with Nick:Instagram: https://instagram.com/nickbracksWebsite: http://nickbracks.comEmail: contact@nickbracks.comConnect with George:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetinmen/Website: https://thetinmen.blog/
269. #269: Ted Bundy Psychologist Explains Why People Stay in Abusive Relationships - Dr. Peter Salerno
57:55||Ep. 269Why do people stay in abusive relationships?In this episode, I speak with Dr. Peter Salerno, a psychologist and expert in trauma and abusive relationships.We explore what happens psychologically when someone is being abused - from the early signs to the long-term effects on the mind and nervous system.We talk about cognitive dissonance, manipulation tactics like gaslighting and love bombing, and why people can feel trapped even when they know something is wrong.This episode will change how you understand abusive relationships and the people who experience them.Dr. Peter Salerno is a psychologist specializing in trauma, personality disorders, and recovery from abusive relationships.Timestamps: (00:00) Intro - Signs of Abuse (00:48) Confusion and Dissonance (01:30) Nervous System Freeze (03:26) Intuition Versus Gaslighting (06:00) Manipulation Tactics (08:23) Intentional Abuse Explained (12:28) Psychopathy and Empathy (17:15) Who Gets Targeted (20:39) Why Leaving Feels Impossible (22:49) Beyond Romance and Long Term Healing (29:24) Finding Meaning After Trauma (31:14) Shame During Grad School (32:22) When Professionals Invalidate (35:18) Social Media Spreads Awareness (39:07) Are Victims People Pleasers (40:11) Psychopathy and Power (45:39) Spotting Red Flags Early (50:20) First Steps to Get Help (53:39) Where to Learn More (55:02) Advice and Happiness (57:24) Final Thanks and Wrap UpConnect with Nick:Instagram: https://instagram.com/nickbracksWebsite: http://nickbracks.comEmail: contact@nickbracks.comConnect with Peter:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drpetersalerno/Website: https://www.drpetersalerno.com/
268. #268: What to Do When You Feel Lost in Life (Psychologist Explains) - Dr. Adam Formal
58:24||Ep. 268What does it mean when you feel lost in life?In this episode, I speak with Dr. Adam Formal, a clinical psychologist who works with elite athletes and people dealing with burnout and addiction.We explore why so many people feel lost and how small daily decisions can slowly pull you away from who you really are.This episode will explain why you can feel lost in life and how to start changing it.Dr. Adam Formal is a clinical psychologist based in NYC.Timestamps:(00:00) Introduction To Feeling Lost(00:27) Emotions Are Like Signals(01:17) Going Through A Crisis(03:19) Micro Choices Drift(04:29) Money And Arrival Myth(06:44) Intrinsic Motivation Wins(11:34) The Tyranny Of Should(12:45) Your Early Training(14:42) Ego Versus Meaning(19:32) Helping One Person(22:36) Choice Over Reactivity(24:39) Boredom And Reflection(27:50) Is Life Meant To Be Hard?(29:51) Meaningful Stretch Goals(32:17) Expectations Versus Reality(33:36) Micro Goals Over Outcomes(35:10) Corporate Carrots And School(36:24) Curiosity Driven Learning(38:33) Workplace Intrinsic Fit(40:28) Sports Motivation And Money(43:03) Longevity Through Love(44:58) Peace In Giving Your All(48:21) First Steps When Lost(51:05) Reverse Engineering Regret(54:54) Closing QuestionsConnect with Nick:Instagram: https://instagram.com/nickbracksWebsite: http://nickbracks.comEmail: contact@nickbracks.comConnect with Adam:Website: https://www.formaltherapy.com/