Your Southern Lesbian

This week, Ashley digs into the #1 holiday mistake lesbians make in relationships: expecting your partner to magically know what you need without ever saying it. Silent agreements, childhood patterns, love languages, and holiday pressure all collide this time of year — and it’s easy to project your needs instead of communicating them.We talk about why mind-reading expectations create resentment, how to actually choose partners aligned with your energy, and what to let go of as we wrap up the final days of 2025’s Year of the Snake.Short, sharp, and holiday-ready — this episode is your reminder to communicate clearly, give people grace, and stop expecting psychic abilities from your girlfriend.Affiliate Links:Ashley’s Healing Reads: https://a.co/idFYLjqAshley’s Gayest Finds: https://a.co/1nFbv6BAshley’s Vegan Fashions: https://a.co/cTiZVLEConnect with Your Southern LesbianYouTube + Podcast: Your Southern LesbianTikTok + Instagram: @yoursouthernlesbianTo Sponsor: sponsor@angelbabyfilms.studioGuest inquiries: yslinfo@angelbabyfilms.studioLondon, UK | Charleston, SC, USADisclaimer: I’m not a doctor—this show is for entertainment and encouragement only. The views you hear are mine or my guest, not my sponsors. Any similarity to real people is purely coincidence.

Episode 48 of Your Southern Lesbian with Ashley Hydrick explores why letting go of old patterns, old identities, and the wrong versions of love isn’t a loss — it’s an act of faith. Ashley breaks down how clinging to familiar but unhealthy emotional habits can block clarity, connection, and healthier love as we move into 2025–2026.If you’ve been feeling stuck, repeating cycles, or holding space for someone who can’t meet you where you are, this episode offers grounded, compassionate guidance on releasing what no longer supports the life you want.Tell me where you’re listening from + if this resonated. I read every message.Connect with Your Southern Lesbian YouTube + Podcast: Your Southern Lesbian TikTok + Instagram: @yoursouthernlesbian Sponsor inquiries: sponsor@angelbabyfilms.studio Guest questions: yslinfo@angelbabyfilms.studio London, UK | Charleston, SC, USADisclaimer: I’m not a doctor—this show is for entertainment and encouragement only.

This week on Your Southern Lesbian, host Ashley Hydrick dives deep into one of the biggest myths in breakup recovery: the idea that “time heals all wounds.”If you’ve been replaying your breakup, obsessing over your ex, or waiting for time to magically do the work… this episode is your turning point.Ashley breaks down:• What healing actually is — a shift in perspective, not a countdown• The truth about your shadow side and how it shapes your relationships• How to stop attracting wound mates and start attracting alignment• Why chaos can feel like chemistry (and how to tell the difference)• How your nervous system signals the truth before your mind does• Why you can’t manifest new love with yesterday’s energy• How to understand your patterns, triggers, and inner-child wounds• And the steps to finally evolve beyond your past relationshipsWhether you’re a lesbian healing from a breakup, exploring shadow work, navigating queer dating, or rebuilding your self-worth after a painful relationship — this episode gives you tools, perspective, and the community support you didn’t know you needed.Books mentioned (Amazon affiliate links-I may earn a small commission at zero added cost to you!):Greenlights – Matthew McConaughey: https://amzn.to/3XzRJpXUntamed – Glennon Doyle: https://amzn.to/4rk1juAWill – Will Smith: https://amzn.to/4ry9L9M🌈 Connect with Your Southern LesbianYouTube + Podcast: Your Southern LesbianTikTok: @your.southern.lesbianInstagram: @yoursouthernlesbianTo Sponsor: sponsor@angelbabyfilms.studioLondon, UK | Charleston, SC, USAMedical Disclaimer:I’m not a doctor — this show’s for entertainment and encouragement only.Amazon Affiliate Disclaimer:Some links may be affiliate links. As an Amazon Associate, I may earn from qualifying purchases — at no extra cost to you. Thank you for supporting the show and this community.

Ep. 2 WHERE DID ALL THE LESBIANS GO?"In the early aughts, we had five lesbian bars to hit a week. Where did all the lesbians go now?"Hey y'all, welcome to the second episode of "Your Southern Lesbian" podcast! In this lively and candid episode, Ashley, a proud Gen X lesbian, dives into the question that has been on everyone's mind: "Where Did All The Lesbians Go?" She reflects on the disappearing lesbian spaces of the early 2000s and discusses the current challenges of dating as a mature lesbian. Ashley explores the decline of lesbian bars, the role of dating apps, and the importance of community-building among lesbians of all ages. This episode is full of humor, nostalgia, and real talk about the ever-changing lesbian culture, with shoutouts to iconic lesbian events like Dinah Shore and thoughts on modern LGBTQIA+ dynamics.Tune in for laughter, stories, and a passionate call to connect, share, and build community, no matter where you are in life.Timestamps:[00:00] - Intro & Welcome to the Podcast[01:45] - Nostalgia: Lesbian Bars and the Early 2000s Scene[05:30] - Where Did All the Lesbians Go?[08:15] - Dating Challenges for Mature Lesbians[12:00] - Exploring the Apps: Hinge, Match, and More[17:45] - Chelsea Handler, Straight Women, and Lesbian Porn?[21:00] - Dinah Shore: The Ultimate Lesbian Spring Break[25:30] - Building Community & Supporting Each Other[30:00] - Lesbian Inclusivity: Navigating Trans and LGBTQIA+ Discussions[35:15] - The Importance of Creating Spaces for Connection[40:00] - Wrap-Up: Building Community in a Changing WorldKey Topics Covered:Lesbian culture and disappearing social spacesDating as a mature lesbianUse of dating apps for lesbians: the pros and consNostalgia for the vibrant lesbian bar scene of the early 2000sThe importance of community, especially in uncertain timesInclusivity within the LGBTQIA+ communityHow to meet other lesbians outside of bars and appsSubscribe, like, and comment below! Join the conversation by sharing your thoughts on where all the lesbians have gone, the best dating apps, and how to build stronger lesbian communities.Feel free to suggest topics for upcoming episodes—this is an interactive podcast, and your voice matters!WORK WITH ME / SUPPORT THE SHOW🏳️‍🌈SUBSCRIBE to the Podcast 📺 🎤on YOUTUBE:✍️ Contact: LSouthernA@outlook.com💖 Buy-me-a-coffee: https://ko-fi.com/yoursouthernlesbian📱 TikTok & YouTube: @YourSouthernLesbian

Ep.1 Introducing Your Southern Lesbian Channel, Podcast, and Community. This is meant to be a FUN way to connect to other lesbians both in your own backyard and around the world. We have the technology--why not?? :)It's also meant to to be a resource for lesbians, their allies, and those questioning, or anyone who feels drawn here.And Les be real...making and maintaining lesbian friendships and your sense of community gets tougher as we mature and grow wiser (I'm not sayin' older! ;) But what a cool thing to be able to chat in the comments with others like you, with similar interests, but I'd also LOVE for us to do some live zooms together with our #globallesbiancommunity as we gain enough interest and toss out all kinds of topics that are fun and meaningful. #yallconnect Fantastic toolkit to get you started setting up a Gay-Straight alliance chapter at your or your kid’s school:GLSEN: https://www.glsen.org/support-student-gsasLink to LGBTQIA mental health resources about coming out or being outed at school:The Trevor Project: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/resources/article/creating-safer-spaces-in-schools-for-lgbtq-youth/WORK WITH ME / SUPPORT THE SHOW🏳️‍🌈SUBSCRIBE to the Podcast 📺 🎤on YOUTUBE:✍️ Contact: LSouthernA@outlook.com💖 Buy-me-a-coffee: https://ko-fi.com/yoursouthernlesbian📱 TikTok & YouTube: @YourSouthernLesbian

Main Topics:Love Lies Bleeding Review:Directed by Rose Glass.Stars Kristen Stewart, Katy O'Brien, Ed Harris, and Dave Franco.Similar vibe to "Bound" with campy macabre and great character building.Kristen Stewart's performance and the film's representation of lesbians.Community FeedbackGratitude for audience engagement and responses.How do y'all feel about the word "lesbian?"Personal anecdote about reclaiming the term "lesbian" and its impact.Lesbian Relationships:Discussion on femme-femme relationships and societal perceptions.The issue of lesbian couples being mistaken for sisters.Challenges faced by femme couples even in LGBTQ+ spaces.The phenomenon of lesbian couples withdrawing from social circles.Importance of trust and communication in relationships.Personal Growth and Therapy:The host's journey through therapy and self-improvement.Addressing complex PTSD and the importance of processing feelings.Resources for listeners who might be going through similar experiences.Community Events:Positive experiences at lesbian meet-ups.Encouraging listeners to join local meet-ups for community and support.Lesbian Representation in Media:Critique of lesbian characters and storylines in movies and TV shows.Desire for positive and sane lesbian characters with happy endings.Inviting listeners to share their favorite or least favorite representations.Call to Action:Engage with the community by commenting on topics discussed.Share your thoughts on the term "lesbian" and how you prefer to be identified.Provide feedback on femme-femme relationships and social dynamics.Recommend books and resources for personal growth and therapy.Participate in local lesbian meet-ups and share your experiences.Thank you guys for all your support and engagement!!! We all need it!Let's keep it going in future episodes! :)WORK WITH ME / SUPPORT THE SHOW🏳️‍🌈SUBSCRIBE to the Podcast 📺 🎤on YOUTUBE:✍️ Contact: LSouthernA@outlook.com💖 Buy-me-a-coffee: https://ko-fi.com/yoursouthernlesbian📱 TikTok & YouTube: @YourSouthernLesbian

* Special Thanks: * Public thank you to Dena Paduano, my co-host of our "Life in the New Normal" podcast, for her support and encouragement.Main Topic: * Disturbing Meetup Story of the Week: * Ashley recounts a disastrous experience at a London Lesbian Meetup for a screening of "Amy”, the Amy Winehouse film. * Describes feeling ill after eating questionable popcorn, ultimately leading to passing out and vomiting in the theater. * Emphasizes the importance of attending Meetups despite potential awkwardness, sharing that she still returned and interacted with the group.Encouragement for Single Mature Lesbians:* Overcoming Meetup Anxiety: * Encouragement for viewers to attend Meetups and not let fear hold them back. * Assurance that everyone experiences awkward moments and that it's part of life.* Personal Reflections: * Ashley shares her journey from a party lifestyle to a healthier, more mindful existence. * Emphasizes personal growth and the importance of aligning actions with values, such as her veganism and ethical choices.* Interactive Segment: * Ashley Invites viewers to share their most horrifying Meetup or first date stories. * Encourages open discussion and connection within the community.Discussion Topic: Femme and Butch Dynamics:* Viewer-Suggested Topic: * Exploration of whether feminine lesbians feel the need to present more masculine to attract partners. * Questions the dynamics of femme-femme relationships and whether one partner tends to adopt a more masculine role.Support for Mature Lesbians:* Community Building: * Ashley acknowledges the unique challenges faced by single mature lesbians and aims to provide support and encouragement. * Invites viewers to share their thoughts and experiences to foster a supportive community.* Final Thoughts: * Emphasizes the importance of resilience and continuing to engage in social activities despite fears or past negative experiences. * Encourages ongoing viewer interaction and topic suggestions.Call to Action: * Ashley Invites viewers to comment below or send messages with their thoughts, stories, and topic ideas. * Promises to keep episodes relevant and engaging based on viewer feedback.Connect with Ashley:* Subscribe: Don’t forget to subscribe to the channel for more insights and personal stories!* Follow on Social Media: * Instagram: @ahydrick * Tik Tok Interactive Community: @your.southern.lesbianThank you for watching! If you enjoyed this episode, please like, comment, and share with your friends. See you in the next episode!WORK WITH ME / SUPPORT THE SHOW🏳️‍🌈SUBSCRIBE to the Podcast 📺 🎤on YOUTUBE:✍️ Contact: LSouthernA@outlook.com💖 Buy-me-a-coffee: https://ko-fi.com/yoursouthernlesbian📱 TikTok & YouTube: @YourSouthernLesbian

(Thank You! Heartfelt thanks to all listeners for your beautiful comments and engagement. It keeps me coming back and fuels our community spirit.)Our little TikTok Lesbian community is blowing up with amazing interactions. If you haven't checked it out yet, head over there! The community is engaging and supportive. :) TikTok: @your.southern.lesbian -----------In this episode, your favorite southern lesbian, Ashley Hydrick, broadcasts live from a kitchen in Windsor, UK. Despite the occasional loud plane flying overhead, she delivers another engaging episode filled with her unique wit, warmth, and southern charm. She kicks off the show by discussing the amazing support and engagement from the community, especially on TikTok. She praises the younger generation's involvement, tech savviness, and emotional maturity.BBC's "I Kissed a Girl": A shout-out to the newest lesbian-centered BBC show, sparking conversation about how today's young lesbians are navigating relationships. She also dives into her love of lesbian romance novels, discussing her favorites like Jericho by Anne McMan and The Soho Loft Series by Melissa Brayden. She invites listeners to share their favorite lesbian romance books as well.It's almost Pride Season! While it's a time for celebration with friends and public parades, let's not forget the historical significance.Quick history: Homosexuality was considered a mental disorder until 1973, changed due to protests post-Stonewall riots.Pride began as a riot, a reminder of our journey and a chance to desensitize the world to our presence and rights.Safety Tips: Be aware of your surroundings, know where officers are, and watch out for pickpockets. Enjoy, but stay safe!From heartfelt reflections on Pride to humorous musings on TikTok trends, lesbian dating apps, and romance novels, this episode has something for everyone.Fun fact: I often find myself deep-diving into comment sections late at night to see who's who! (Maybe also doin’ a little wife-searchin’!)Timestamps:0:00 - 2:00: Introduction and shoutout to listeners2:01 - 8:45: TikTok lesbian community, tech challenges, and TikTok trends8:46 - 12:35: Pride reflections, history, and safety tips for Pride events12:36 - 18:00: Review of the BBC show I Kissed a Girl18:01 - 22:00: Lesbian romance novels discussion and recommendations22:01 - 24:30: Wrap-up and shoutouts to listenersLESBIAN BOOKS MENTIONED:Jericho by Anne McManThe Soho Loft Series by Melissa BraydenBorn Out of Wedlock by Lynn GardnerBehind the Green Curtain by Riley LaCheWaiting in the Wings by Melissa BraydenTurbulence by E.J. Noyes(Special shoutout to Abby Craden, a fantastic narrator in the genre!)WORK WITH ME / SUPPORT THE SHOW🏳️‍🌈SUBSCRIBE to the Podcast 📺 🎤on YOUTUBE:✍️ Contact: LSouthernA@outlook.com💖 Buy-me-a-coffee: https://ko-fi.com/yoursouthernlesbian📱 TikTok & YouTube: @YourSouthernLesbianAffiliate links support the show at no cost to you. Thanks, y’all.