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Kelly & Tom's Story

Season 2, Ep. 28

In this episode Barbara interviews Kelly and her fiancé Tom about their experience with Kelly's tongue cancer diagnosis and treatment. Kelly, who is based in Pittsburgh and works as an administrative professional, shares her journey through two bouts of tongue cancer, highlighting the surgeries, treatments, and their impact on her life. Tom provides a caretaker's perspective, detailing the challenges and his role in supporting Kelly. The conversation explores the emotional and logistical hurdles faced by both as they navigate through medical treatments, including chemo and radiation, and the importance of having a strong support system. The couple discusses overcoming obstacles, such as dietary changes and communication difficulties, emphasizing their strengthened relationship and resilience. The episode offers valuable insights into the realities of battling tongue cancer and the intricate dynamics between patients and their loved ones.

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