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World’s Your Oysta

How To Be a Better Listener

Season 2, Ep. 47

Welcome back to another Sunday session of World's Your Oysta, where we dive deep into personal growth, relationships, and self-care. This week, Paula Sanders, your host, is here to teach you how to become a better listener and avoid being a conversational bulldozer. Whether you're chatting with friends, family, or colleagues, these tips will help you build stronger connections and show genuine interest in others.


What to expect:

• Understanding the importance of active listening and how to fully engage with the speaker.

• Tips on avoiding interruptions and practicing patience in conversations.

• Strategies for showing genuine interest and asking thoughtful follow-up questions.

• The power of reflecting and • rephrasing to ensure clear communication.

• How to resist the urge to relate everything back to yourself and keep the focus on others.

• Embracing silence as a tool for deeper, more thoughtful conversations.


Join Paula as she shares her personal experiences and practical advice to help you become a better conversationalist.


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Host: Paula Sanders

Podcast: World’s Your Oysta

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Produced by Peoples Media

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