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Ep. 109 How I Stopped Overthinking: The Theory That Changed My Life

Ep. 109
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I’ve given myself an excuse to spend hours researching the topics I wish I knew more about so you don’t need to read a whole book to understand something important.


So I've started with one of the most important things I've researched over the last few years: how to channel your overthinking and make it your superpower.


The episode is only 35 minutes long, so perfect for your morning hot girl walk! Let me know what you think!


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A huge thank you to Jemma Sbeg for sharing her wisdom with us for this episode.


Listen to The Psychology of Your 20s here: https://www.psychologyofyour20s.com/


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READING LIST


I owe a huge amount to the writers & podcasters below whose work I researched for this episode!


Harvard Business Review article: https://hbr.org/2021/02/how-to-stop-overthinking-everything

Daniel Kahneman, Thinking Fast & Slow: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Thinking-Fast-Slow-Daniel-Kahneman/dp/0141033576/ref=asc_df_0141033576/?tag=googshopuk-21&linkCode=df0&hvadid=696285193871&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=12857937252744557368&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9046008&hvtargid=pla-2281435178138&psc=1&mcid=cf580ab98b2039838f3039821818c08d&hvocijid=12857937252744557368-0141033576-&hvexpln=74&gad_source=1

Rewire, Nicole Vignola: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Rewire-Your-Neurotoolkit-Everyday-Life/dp/0241661838/ref=asc_df_0241661838/?tag=googshopuk-21&linkCode=df0&hvadid=696285193871&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=9115264378744171287&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9046008&hvtargid=pla-2281435177858&psc=1&mcid=33e083c8d74835588d255c6e2da45c7a&th=1&psc=1&hvocijid=9115264378744171287-0241661838-&hvexpln=74&gad_source=1

Atomic Habits, James Clear: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Atomic-Habits-Proven-Build-Break/dp/1847941834/ref=asc_df_1847941834/?tag=googshopuk-21&linkCode=df0&hvadid=696285193871&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=9115264378744171287&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9046008&hvtargid=pla-2281435177618&psc=1&mcid=5f87ef6d64c43173a6fbda470bbfcbf1&th=1&psc=1&hvocijid=9115264378744171287-1847941834-&hvexpln=74&gad_source=1


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