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“I spent 40,000 dollars on IVF only to lose the baby. I wanted to die!” | Ini Edo, Nse and others speak honestly on childbirth |#WithChude

Season 7, Ep. 25

“I spent 40,000 dollars on IVF only to lose the baby. I wanted to die!”


“I had a couple of miscarriages and I got a surrogate, I was tired of trying.”


Where else would you hear these kinds of truths about ‘infertility’? These kinds of deep vulnerability and authenticity and raw, unfiltered honesty?


This special episode to help men and women struggling with having kids is now up on withChude.com.  


These guests are doing a service. They are sharing deep truths that connect with people facing these issues and let them know they are not alone. 


I thank them deeply for trusting me with their stories - and for helping others in their journeys. 


Watch the full conversation right now on WithChude.com. 


Share your experiences or the experiences of others you know in the comments below. ❤



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