A Wimp's Guide to Exploiters

People who ask to borrow your things and then think it's ok to keep them forever are usually self-centred (or to put it another way - thieves!). What a cheek! Don't you just hate it when someone asks to borrow a book from you?! Every fibre of your body is screaming 'no' as you hand it over and prepare to never see it again. Let's have a look at why we are easy targets for these people (because we're people-pleasing 'yes' people) and how we can put a stop to it - wimp style.

Leaving a narcissist (who doesn't want to let you go) is daunting. However deeply connected to them you are and however beholden to them they make you feel, it can be done! Let's explore the reasons why you are still with them, and form your exit plan.

Us wimps find it extremely difficult to say no. We are natural people pleasers who automatically say yes. We don't like to think we are offending someone or letting them down, and we certainly don't want a confrontation. Let's look at some wimp style hacks to assert no secretly without the exploiter even realising.

If you're involved with a narcissist you may be wondering whether they are aware of their disorder - let's discuss it!

Come and find out why being a wimp is a wonderful gift! You are an amazing, charismatic, kind empath, and everyone loves you. Unfortunately, that also includes people who exploit you. Some exploiters don't realise they are exploiting you because you don't tell them, others absolutely do know and, in fact, gain a feeling of power from it. These are the people that we need to deal with, and it can be done without a confrontation or conflict. Let's discuss how!