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Phantom Thread (2017) with Jack Murray

Season 1, Ep. 32

Jack and Nora are joined by TV producer and writer Jack Murray to discuss #11 on Vanity Fair’s list of the 42 Best Romantic Comedies of All Time: Phantom Thread. In this episode, Nora is tall and normal-sized (allegedly), Jack G. gets on his M. Night Shyamalan soapbox (again), and Jack M. is the ultimate Paul Thomas Anderson scholar (absolutely). Put on your best suit/ dress, pick some choice mushrooms, and let’s satisfy our hunger!


Topics include:

  • Daniel Day-Lewis
  • Mrs. Harris Goes to Paris (2022)
  • Finding someone who matches your freak

Mysteries we still haven’t solved:

  • How does Reynolds and Alma’s dynamic translate to the bedroom..?
  • Why does no one flirt in movies anymore?

Where to find us:

Find links to our Spotify playlist, the Vanity Fair list, and more here.


Join the conversation! Give us your take on the films we cover, which romcoms you think should be on the list, or your best “would do/ wouldn’t do/ have done” stories on socials or at mail@whenrommet.com.


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