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the myth of the "good person"

Season 1, Ep. 6

In this week’s episode, we’ll explore the challenges that come to the surface when we view others as fundamentally ‘good’ or ‘bad’ people ..

- how our practice of defending against being perceived as a bad person begins to stifle our authentic expression, our physical

and mental health, and ultimately - leads to a level of dehumanization (both internally and externally) that can be hard for us to reconcile  


you can connect with dené further at the links below:

 

web: denelogan.com

IG: @dene.logan

TikTok: @denelogan


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