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The Secret ADHD Advantage Nobody Talks About

Ep. 301

Does having ADHD make you a better entrepreneur? Transformation artist and former actress Helen Millar believes her neurodivergence is actually her greatest superpower. In this episode, Helen reveals why the ADHD brain's high risk tolerance and elite pattern recognition give founders a massive edge in business. We explore how to trust your deepest intuition, why playing small is the most dangerous thing you can do, and why having the wrong support system is worse than having none at all. Helen also shares her wildly unorthodox approach to networking , and why she walked away from a successful acting career to maintain her integrity. Plus, we finally uncover the psychological truth behind "Resting Bitch Face" and why it’s actually a sign of intense, ADHD-driven deep listening. Check out the company: https://hearthealer.co.uk


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00:00 - The Secret ADHD Advantage

01:47 - Trusting Your Intuition & Playing Big

03:40 - Spotting Fake Support Systems

06:14 - The "Piss Up in a Brewery" Networking Guide

08:40 - How to Get Noticed When You're a "Nobody"

10:38 - The Art of Being Interested (Not Just Interesting)

14:06 - Don't Be a Slave to Your Business

16:56 - Why I Walked Away From Acting

18:12 - The Dark Side of Media Manipulation

21:50 - How to Become a Transformation Artist

26:54 - The Truth About "Resting Bitch Face" and ADHD

30:00 - Becoming a Master of Meaning

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