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My name is Daria and I am.... Believer
Today I went to Anonymous Alcoholics for very first time. No, I have no problem with alcohol or drugs or something else.
Ya-ya, all addicted say that they have no any problem and can stop in any moment.
But it is really not my case. I went there just to support one friend of mine. I sat in the corner, looked into this friendly faces, listen about their stories. I got to know them in person. Was surprised how "normal" they are and how big their hearts.
Topic of the meeting was "Gratefulness".
Everyone told what he/she grateful for and added some touching story from past or present time. Someone was crying. Someone was laughing.
I listen all this stories and tried to recognise what I AM grateful for? What I will say when I will have chance to say something. This thought took all evening and way to home.
And I found it out.
I am grateful that I can ask about help. I can raise my voice and said "I NEED HELP".
And I am very thankful that in time when I trusted to tell it, next to me was people what supported and helped me.
You cannot imagine, but just to realize that you have a problem, took a decision to ask about help and spell this 3 words loud it is like a superpower.
Plenty people have too low self worth or too big ego to do it and endet up in best case in hospital. In worse case on a bottom from where way out is almost no possible because life already completely destroyed, including relation with friends and family.
I am not telling now only about drugs and alcohol. It could be depression, game addiction, shopaholism, whatever that suppose to ruin your life if not right now, than in future.
Dear You, who read it right now, please, open your eyes, be honest with you, look with this opened honest eyes on your current life and pointed out that your life is awesome and be grateful for that and proud of yourself or confess that you have problem, go to people that you can trust and say "I NEED HELP". Be brave. Turn your life in better way. Bekomme a superhero. Be sure that it is never too late, but then earlier you start then easier will be to get your life back.
With believe that you can,
Daria Lifelover
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I am lazy. Or am I?
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Afraid of getting old
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Tinder dating with and without isolation
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CO-DEPENDENT USERS
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Podcast introduction
03:10|Let us introduce ourselves! We are Believers is a project run by Daria Hackenberg and Hollis P Monroe. This podcast is rooted in philosophical theory, as well as real world practice, to be affirmed or challenged throughout our conversations. We are believers in ideas, people, and the power of love. We are not trying to change your mind. We only express what we believe as we do not claim to know. Along the way, we try to show how wonderful you are, in case you forget it and share with you our doubts and wonderings. Disagree? Have a better point? Have some other interesting topic or question? Write us a message! Looking forward to hear from you!! www.facebook.com/WRbelievers www.instagram.com/wrbelievers www.youtube.com/channel/UCQX4fEyuM7O054b3h23Jf5g/ Daria Hackenberg (Russia, currently based in Berlin, Germany) Project Manager and Agilist, passionate in philosophical aspect of life and with deep understanding to people nature. daria on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/darialifelover daria on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/darialifelover Hollis P Monroe (USA, currently based in Berlin, Germany) DJ/Music producer and YouTube conversationalist who thoroughly enjoys talking about a variety of topics in and outside of the music world. hollisTalks on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/Hollistalks hollis on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hollispmonroe/ hollis on facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hollispmonroemusically hollis on line: http://pmonroe.com/ Hollis talks to Daria: https://bit.ly/HollisTalksToDaria --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/wearebelievers/message
NO MAKEUP means she has NO INTEREST
01:00:09|A week of chatting and finally the long-awaited first date, but she (oh my God!) came without makeup! What would that mean? She wants to show that she's not interested in you? Or does she want you to recognize her as a person first? Or is she nice and comfortable with you? Or maybe she never wears makeup and her armpits are in the jungle? Or maybe it just doesn't matter? In this episode we try to figure out the possible reasons and question the need for makeup in general. We also discuss how men and women are attracted, both from our personal point of view and in terms of psychology, physiology and natural instincts. What is really important and what is not? How to be attracted to the opposite sex and to remain yourself? And as always, we share our personal stories! Listen and share your opinion and your stories with us!!! The song Hollis says in episode: What a Fool Believers - The Doobie Brothers Looking forward to hear from you!! www.facebook.com/WRbelievers www.instagram.com/wrbelievers www.youtube.com/channel/UCQX4fEyuM7O054b3h23Jf5g/ Daria Hackenberg (Russia, currently based in Berlin, Germany) Project Manager and Agilist, passionate in philosophical aspect of life and with deep understanding to people nature. daria on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/darialifelover daria on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/darialifelover Hollis P Monroe (USA, currently based in Berlin, Germany) DJ/Music producer and YouTube conversationalist who thoroughly enjoys talking about a variety of topics in and outside of the music world. hollisTalks on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/Hollistalks hollis on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hollispmonroe/ hollis on facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hollispmonroemusically hollis on line: http://pmonroe.com/ Hollis talks to Daria: https://bit.ly/HollisTalksToDaria --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/wearebelievers/message
GET LOST IN CORONACRISIS
41:57|Fear, uncertainty, instability, powerlessness, uncertainty... ...is what brings people around the world together today. We live in a new world for us and no one knows how long it will last. We isolate ourselves in our homes, keep our distance, can't meet friends or even family like we used to. The Coronacrisis is affecting each of us. Each of us is dealing with it as best we can. We believe that someone is helped by his supply of toilet paper, but it does not save from a lack of social contacts. How not to go insane? In this issue, we'll discuss a few options. Listen all the way through and find your inspiration. But the most important thing to remember is that we are still human beings and we should treat other people with understanding and not lose our humanity. Stay strong! Stay home! The art project "Isolation" mentioned in the episode can be found at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/izoizolyacia Tell us about your challenges and how you deal with it! Looking forward to hear from you!! www.facebook.com/WRbelievers www.instagram.com/wrbelievers www.youtube.com/channel/UCQX4fEyuM7O054b3h23Jf5g/ Daria Hackenberg (Russia, currently based in Berlin, Germany) Project Manager and Agilist, passionate in philosophical aspect of life and with deep understanding to people nature. daria on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/darialifelover daria on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/darialifelover Hollis P Monroe (USA, currently based in Berlin, Germany) DJ/Music producer and YouTube conversationalist who thoroughly enjoys talking about a variety of topics in and outside of the music world. hollisTalks on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/Hollistalks hollis on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hollispmonroe/ hollis on facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hollispmonroemusically hollis on line: http://pmonroe.com/ Hollis talks to Daria: https://bit.ly/HollisTalksToDaria --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/wearebelievers/message
Kids, instincts and Childfree life position
50:13|It is something so natural to have Kids. Why every year more and more people prefer childfree life position? Is it something against nature or right choice? Do we need to plan parenthood or let it happened? What is the right time? Is there any right time for children? Listen this episode and find our answer on this and many other question. Share your opinion and life position regarding this topic with us: www.facebook.com/WRbelievers www.instagram.com/wrbelievers www.youtube.com/channel/UCQX4fEyuM7O054b3h23Jf5g/ Daria Hackenberg (Russia, currently based in Berlin, Germany) Project Manager and Agilist, passionate in philosophical aspect of life and with deep understanding to people nature. daria on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/darialifelover daria on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/darialifelover Hollis P Monroe (USA, currently based in Berlin, Germany) DJ/Music producer and YouTube conversationalist who thoroughly enjoys talking about a variety of topics in and outside of the music world. hollisTalks on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/Hollistalks hollis on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hollispmonroe/ hollis on facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hollispmonroemusically hollis on line: http://pmonroe.com/ Hollis talks to Daria: https://bit.ly/HollisTalksToDaria --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/wearebelievers/message