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Voice It Out Podcast with Shyama & Amrita

Ep 7. Should marriage still be seen as the ultimate life goal?

Season 1, Ep. 7

In this episode, we are from different standpoints from the start - Shyama got married in 2022 and Amrita is not married, no kids and not in her 20s or 30s anymore. We ask whether marriage is still seen as the ultimate achievement in the British Asian culture. Why are people so inquisitive abut relationship status and why is it always made to be a thing if someone is not married. We talk about whether these kinds of questions are relevant in this day and age and call out the shows and series which have given us live examples of the way single women are portrayed and treated when looking for a partner or even just being happily single.

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