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What's the difference in a butt dial and a booty call?

Season 10, Ep. 6

Let us go ahead and say it up front: this one gyat a little thick on the back end. We may have packed in a little too much junk in the trunk.


All booty puns aside - this week we're sitting down (sorry!) to talk about one of the biggest issues we face today: pulling scripture out of its original context to justify our personal preferences and beliefs.


We use the click bait of the title to pull you in before shifting to a conversation we really think you'll enjoy.

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