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It's okay to change your mind

Season 10, Ep. 8

For many of us who are trying to live in the tensions of our faith, we have come to places where what we're learning today is different from what we've learned in our past.


In the final episode of season ten, we talk about how it's okay to change your mind on issues as you learn new things and come to new understandings. We also discuss the amount of bravery it takes to approach your faith in a way that asks the hard questions.


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