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How you talk about abortion matters

Season 11, Ep. 3

Did you know only 7% of people who had an abortion felt comfortable talking to *anyone* at church before making their decision? If that's not bad enough, only 3 in 10 believe the Church is a safe place to discuss pregnancy options (including parenting, abortion, and adoption).


Why don't people who have had an abortion feel comfortable in the American Church? What is it about us that makes them feel unsafe?


This week we continue our look at how Cultural Christianity is killing the American Church by discussing how the way we talk about abortion within the Church is hurting those who have been impacted by it the most.


Articles we reference:


https://www.focusonthefamily.com/pro-life/abortion/survey-women-go-silently-from-church-to-abortion-clinic/

https://deeperstill.org/roe-triggers/


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