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S3 EP5: The Ugly Truth About Friendship w/ LifeWithYourMidwife

We’re joined by our close friend and returning guest Life With Your Midwife (aka Lydia), and we’re getting honest about the ugly side of Christian friendship.


We talk about misunderstandings, tension, unspoken feelings, and the moments where friendship doesn’t feel easy ...but also what it looks like to choose grace, communication, and growth anyway.


This isn’t a perfect conversation, but it’s a real one. And if you’ve ever struggled in friendship, you’ll probably see yourself in this.


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