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The Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast

Planning Your Wedding Before You’re Engaged

Season 1, Ep. 136

You may assume that most couples don't start planning their weddings until after they're engaged. But according to a study by The Knot, you'd be wrong! As many as 70-90% of couples start planning their wedding and talking about it before the proposal!


So if you are not engaged (yet) but want to start planning your wedding, you're not alone.


Listen in as I share what parts of marriage and wedding planning you definitely want to tackle before your engagement, what tasks you may want to avoid, good reasons to start planning early and some important questions to ask yourself if you feel like your pre-engagement planning is getting to be too much.


Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear!

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