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The Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast

How to Make Your Wedding a Safe Space for Your LGBTQ+ Guests

Season 1, Ep. 120

On this new episode of the Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast, I'm answering a listener question all about how to make their wedding a safe, welcoming and inclusive space for their LGBTQ+ guests. Should they say something to their more conservative family members ahead of time?


I'm also sharing tips on how to make your wedding less gendered and more inclusive, because regardless of who is on the guest list, that's always a good idea!


Reference article: https://apracticalwedding.com/trans-non-binary-inclusive-wedding/


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