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Unconventional Ideas for Your Pre-Wedding Events

Season 1, Ep. 94

REBROADCAST: Tired of the same old bridal showers? Don't know what the point of an engagement party is? Definitely don't want to go to Vegas for your bachelorette? Not sure you need a rehearsal dinner?

Then you're in the right place! Today's episode of The Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast is all about flipping all of your pre-wedding events on their heads. Throw out tradition, think creatively and host events that really feel like you. 


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This episode originally aired in Dec 2021.

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