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Promescent: Revolutionizing Sexual Wellness

Season 4, Ep. 297

Quick, honey. Grab the lube! This week the hosts explore the transformative world of sexual wellness with another conversation with Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent. Jeff takes us through his inspiring journey toward revolutionizing the sexual wellness industry, emphasizing the critical role of medical certification and science-backed products. His narrative delves into the challenges of bringing Promescent to the forefront, highlighting the broader need for comprehensive sexual education and the obstacles encountered in advertising sexual wellness products. Throughout the conversation, Jeff addresses the societal stigmas and restrictions that often hinder the marketing efforts within the sexual wellness space, advocating for the recognition of sex as an essential activity of daily living. Jeff also shares insights into the expansion of Promescent’s product line, focusing on inclusivity and the importance of addressing common sexual health issues, such as premature ejaculation and the pleasure gap.

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Key takeaways:

  • Medical certification and evidence-based products are paramount in the sexual wellness industry.
  • Comprehensive sexual education is essential for overcoming common sexual health issues.
  • The advertising and marketing of sexual wellness products face unique challenges due to societal stigma.
  • Recognizing sex as an integral part of daily living is crucial for holistic health.
  • Expansion and inclusivity in product lines are key to addressing diverse needs in sexual health.



Introduction to Jeff Abraham and Promescent


The Importance of Medical Certification and Science-Based Products


Jeff's Journey to Promescent


Addressing Premature Ejaculation and the Pleasure Gap


Jeff's Understanding of Sexuality and Pleasure


The Need for Comprehensive Sexual Education


The Frustrations of Advertising Sexual Wellness Products


Sex as an Activity of Daily Living


Expanding the Product Line of Promescent


Continuity and Customer Experience


Expanding into Retail and Women's Products


Discreet Packaging and Retail Expansion


Financial Motives and Sexual Wellness


Family Planning and Women's Rights


Considering Other Locations


Educating Customers and Product Satisfaction


Authenticity and Trust in Marketing


Closing Remarks and Support

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