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070: Lobster dinner with a toddler

Season 1, Ep. 70

Q. What do these three situations have in common? Taking a friend for a lobster dinner, business strategy workshops, and personal coaching.


A. They all feature in this episode as examples of how constraints, constructors and actants play out.


The main chunk of this session is us talking through Tom's personal experience being 1:1 coached using Estuarine Mapping. We found this enormously enlightening, and we're excited to share.


If you've been looking for definitions or examples of constraints, constructors and actants, then you're in the right place.


Links and resources:


  • The article about unfolding: https://www.henrikkarlsson.xyz/p/unfolding
  • Coach Mushfiqa: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mushfiqajamaluddin/
  • More about Estuarine Mapping: https://triggerstrategy.com/estuarine-mapping-2-half-day-pre-strategy-workshop-for-execs

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