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TransLash Podcast with Imara Jones

River Butcher on Masculinity

Season 4, Ep. 102

What’s so funny about masculinity? This week, Imara talks with actor, writer, and stand up comedian River Butcher about the beauty and absurdity of being a man. They discuss being affirmed by butt slaps on the baseball field, the nonlinear nature of liberation, and just how far masculinity has expanded over the last few decades. River also gives an inside peek into his complicated relationship with they/them pronouns in queer spaces and Hollywood audition rooms. 


Make sure to check out TransLash Media’s political show “The Mess: Imara’s Guide to Our Political Hellscape.” You can subscribe by getting a TransLash Fam membership in Apple Podcasts. Just scroll to the top of this show in the Apple Podcasts app to find the subscribe button. 


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T4T Comedy: Instagram (@t4tcomedy)

River Butcher: Instagram (@rivbutcher) and X (@rivbutcher)


TransLash Podcast is produced by Translash Media.

Translash Team: Imara Jones, Oliver-Ash Kleine, Aubrey Calaway. 

Xander Adams is our senior sound engineer and a contributing producer.

Oliver Whitney and Courtney Cobb are our social media producers.

Digital strategy by Daniela “Dani” Capistrano.

Theme Music: Ben Draghi and ZZK records. 

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