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11. Mother's Day Special: Breaking Generational Cycles
45:42||Season 1, Ep. 11As the saying goes, mums are always right. This week, Toni brings in her mum to help solve your dilemmas. Caught feelings for your FWB? Toni and her mum get to the bottom of it. They also dive into their powerful mother-daughter bond, breaking generational cycles, and share the life-changing lessons they've learned from one another. From love advice to family wisdom, this episode is packed with heart, humour, and real talk.Got a dilemma of your own and need some big-sis wisdom? Send it to toni@tonitoldmepod.com or slide into the DMs on Instagram @tonitoldmepod.
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10. No Borders, Just Love
56:47||Season 1, Ep. 10Interracial dating—it's a hot topic, and Toni is ready to dive right in! Ever wondered what it’s really like from someone who’s been there? Toni sits down with her friend Afua for a raw and unfiltered chat about her experiences in the world of interracial dating. And in ‘Teatime with Toni,’ they tackle your juiciest dilemmas—including the awkward reality of dating someone who sounds just like your uncle... Yikes! Buckle up, it’s about to get interesting!Got a dilemma of your own and need some big-sis wisdom? Send it to toni@tonitoldmepod.com or slide into the DMs on Instagram @tonitoldmepod.9. For Better or Worse: A Man’s Take
45:20||Season 1, Ep. 9Toni’s getting married this year, and she’s on a mission to understand marriage—from a man’s perspective! Who better to spill the truth than her own brother, Tomi?They'll be diving into the drama: How would you feel if your partner’s ex kept inviting them out with their kid—but you weren’t on the guest list? Messy, right? Tomi and Toni are here to break it down and tackle your juiciest dilemmas!Got a dilemma of your own and need some big-sis wisdom? Send it to toni@tonitoldmepod.com or slide into the DMs on Instagram @tonitoldmepod.8. You Matter Because You Exist
51:50||Season 1, Ep. 8Ever wondered what it takes to live a truly happy life? Content creator and author David Larbi joins Toni to reveal how embracing happiness and vulnerability changed everything. Plus, drifting from a friend? They’re tackling your dilemmas in Tea Time with Toni—don’t miss it!If you or someone you know is struggling with mental health or having thoughts of suicide, you're not alone. Help is available—here’s a link to Mind, a resource that can provide support and guidance.Got a dilemma of your own and need some big-sis wisdom? Send it to toni@tonitoldmepod.com or slide into the DMs on Instagram @tonitoldmepod.7. Eldest Daughter Syndrome: The Struggle is Real
42:22||Season 1, Ep. 7Eldest Daughter Syndrome is so real and it’s something Toni herself deals with. Toni gets in to the thick of it, how can it present itself, the pressure it puts on you and how it can affect relationships. If you’re an eldest daughter listen up as Toni shares her thoughts.Got a dilemma of your own and need some big-sis wisdom? Send it to toni@tonitoldmepod.com or slide into the DMs on Instagram @tonitoldmepod.6. Fine Girls Do Finance
40:46||Season 1, Ep. 6Struggling to get your finances in check? Toni’s got you covered—with a little help from finance expert Fis! This episode spills the tea on what to do when your ex owes you money but won’t pay up. Plus, Fis shares her top money tips in the Sisterhood Spotlight. Got a dilemma of your own and need some big-sis wisdom? Send it to toni@tonitoldmepod.com or slide into the DMs on Instagram @tonitoldmepod.5. Valentine's & Vulnerability
44:12||Season 1, Ep. 5Toni’s back with her fiancé for a date night on the pod! They’re answering your dilemmas—like, what’s up if your partner doesn’t want to celebrate Valentine’s Day? Plus, they get real about why vulnerability matters and how it’s brought them closer.Got a dilemma of your own and need some big-sis wisdom? Send it to toni@tonitoldmepod.com or slide into the DMs on Instagram @tonitoldmepod.