Toke Moments

In this episode of Toke Moments, Toke sits down with director Dammy Twitch, the creative mind behind Nollywood’s breakout hit Call of My Life, for a candid conversation about his leap from shooting music videos to directing his first feature film. Dammy opens up about the risk of going straight to cinema, the casting process behind the film’s now-famous on-screen chemistry, and the humbling economics of Nigerian filmmaking.The conversation traces his journey from interning as a BTS photographer in Lagos to becoming one of the most talked-about new directors in the industry, including the sacrifices, the doubt, and the mother who supported him even when she didn’t understand the dream. Dammy also gets refreshingly honest about being his own harshest critic, his love for travel, and what’s next after breaking into the box office top ten.This is a funny, insightful conversation about passion, risk, and betting on yourself in an industry that doesn’t always reward patience.

In this episode of Toke Moments, Toke sits down with Mercy Eke for a candid, high-energy conversation covering love, trust, and everything in between. Mercy opens up about going back to school for her Master’s degree while juggling a business, what it really took to push through, and why she believes education is one of the best investments anyone can make in themselves.The conversation moves through relationships and readiness - dating, trust, boundaries, and the misconceptions that have followed Mercy since Big Brother, as well as her journey building M&M into a lifestyle brand, her commitment to fitness as a form of healing, and what she’s really looking for in love and marriage. Mercy also gets refreshingly honest about female friendships, self-respect, and choosing peace over drama in an industry built on comparison.This is a fun, unfiltered, and at times deeply reflective conversation about growth, standards, and knowing exactly who you are.

In this episode of Toke Moments, Toke is back — and she’s got a lot to catch up on. She opens up about stepping away this season to be a more intentional mother, and takes us along on a hilariously chaotic solo trip abroad with her daughter, Yaya.From a diaper emergency mid-flight to becoming an unlikely screen-time convert, Toke shares the unfiltered highs and lows of first-time motherhood, plus a heartfelt shoutout to diaspora moms doing it without help, and the nannies who make it all possible. She also leaves listeners with real, practical tips on how to actually support a mom in your life.

Motherhood changes everything and no one truly prepares you for it.In this episode of Toke Moments, Toke sits down with Simi Drey for an honest conversation about marriage, family, and the identity shifts that come with becoming a mother. Simi opens up about the realities behind the beautiful moments, the challenges many women don’t talk about, and how she’s learning to balance love, partnership, and self-discovery.It’s a heartfelt conversation about growth, womanhood, and navigating a new season of life.

In this episode of Toke Moments, Toke sits down with Idia Aisien for an honest conversation about success, expectations, and the personal growth that happens behind the scenes. Idia opens up about the pressure that often comes with public success, the lessons she’s learned along the way, and the work it takes to keep becoming the best version of herself.This episode is a thoughtful reflection on ambition, resilience, and staying grounded while navigating life in the spotlight.

In this episode of Toke Moments, Toke sits down with Tobe Ugeh - lawyer, creative, traveller and more.From navigating the structure of law to embracing creativity and a life of global experiences, Tobe shares how he’s built a dynamic career without limiting himself to one identity. They talk about ambition, reinvention, passion, and what it really means to design a life on your own terms.It’s an inspiring, easy-flowing conversation about being multifaceted, fearless, and open to growth.

In this episode of Toke Moments, Toke sits down with Chude for a powerful conversation about faith, trauma, and the journey through depression that ultimately transformed his life.From confronting painful childhood experiences to challenging the silence around male vulnerability, Chude shares how what felt like a breaking point became the very thing that saved him. Together, they explore healing, accountability, faith, and the courage it takes to face your truth.This is a raw, reflective conversation about turning pain into purpose and finding light in the darkest seasons.

In this highly relatable episode, Toke links up with Seyi Classic to unpack the realities of being an IJGB defender in Lagos, from the irresistible pull of “outside” to the madness of traffic and the chaos that comes with Detty December.They dive into the expectations vs reality of Lagos enjoyment, the culture shock, the parties, the late nights, and the unspoken rules every IJGB quickly learns once they land. With plenty of laughs, honest takes, and classic Lagos storytelling, this conversation captures the highs, the stress, and the unforgettable memories that make Detty December what it is.Whether you’re an IJGB, a Lagos veteran, or someone planning their next December trip, this episode is a fun, unfiltered look at enjoyment, survival, and defending your decision to be outside in Lagos.