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TMS Hottakes: Poisoning Your Bestfriend, Jealousy, Quarter Life Crisis', Interracial Dating + MORE

Season 5, Ep. 4

Hey sisters! We're back at it again with your midweek fix, coming in HOT with what's trending, our latest thoughts and a little bit of chit chat. From sisters poisoning their bestie due to jealousy, more Katt Williams drops and tuning into Marvel's latest series, it's about time to get into TMS Hottakes! 🔥


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TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 Welcome to the gist and laughter!

01:43 Ding Ding Dilemma: Should I embrace interracial dating?

08:20 This flue that's going around is NO JOKE!

12:26 Katt Williams is back at it again!

18:33 The leap year pattern...

19:59 Poisoning your best friend because of jealousy

25:21 The Receipts Podcast and the beauty of female friendships

28:57 Sisters in South Africa

31:34 Quarter life crisis' and frontal lobe development

37:34 What is paracetamol please?

39:43 What we've been watching lately

47:37 What's the best UK Slang?

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