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"Ride or Die" Only Ends One Way Sis: Dating Red Flags & Influencers Going Back to 9-5's

Season 5, Ep. 32

From ‘straw purchases’ and creators heading back to a 9-5, to discovering your partner is cussing you out in bed?! It’s your official midweek boost coming in hot and piping - nothing other than #TMSHottakes. Stay tuned for the sister’s gist and more in the latest episode!


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