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Men Share Lessons from 35 Years of Marriage, Fatherhood & Raising Confident Daughters

Season 5, Ep. 41

'Daddy Issues' and exploring our relationships with father figures as topics we haven't shied away from on the To My Sisters Podcast, and in this episode, we sit down with the wonderful Tope & Ije to discuss the lessons they've learned from being married for a combined 35 years. They share wisdom on the power of commitment, selflessness, and how they've approached raising confident daughters despite the culture we live in.


💌 Introducing our guests


Ije Nwokorie is a husband, father, Chief Brand Officer at Dr. Martin and former Senior Director at Apple.


LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ijenwokorie/


Tope 'Icie' Chiedozie is a husband, father, Presenter and Founder of The Sit Down UK


LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/topechiedozie/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iciethehost/


Supported by Content is Queen


Timestamps:

00:00 Welcome to a conversation with the brothers

04:38 'I never wanted to get married or have kids...'

08:33 How has marriage changed you as a man?

14:37 How did becoming a father change you?

24:33 Being a girl dad: father-daughter relationships

39:57 Healing your relationship with your father

42:23 To My Daughter,: What to look for in a man

49:45 To My Sisters...


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