To My Sisters

Navigating the questions of finances in any relationship, whether it be romantic or platonic, isn’t always easy. Not to mention the rise of materialism, the reality of comparison and the very real cost of living crisis we are seeing rippling across the world. In today’s episode, the sisters spill the tea on the challenges of financial modesty, the taboo of transparency in finances with your partner, and what are some of the key signs to look out for when Mr Wrong enters at the ‘right’ time.🇬🇭✈️ Come with us to Ghana: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters/84💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com

Beyond who pays on the first date and finding a ‘provider’, what does it ACTUALLY look like to run a healthy financial household with your spouse? Is it truly possible to achieve financial freedom and financial joy with your beloved? What does long term planning look like in marriage - and what are the red flags around money that we as women should look out for, and avoid displaying, when it comes to our money? We’re joined by our friends, dynamic duo and joint entrepreneurs, the Humble Penny, to answer all the burning questions that our ‘generational wealth builders have…and more.💌 Introducing our guestsKen & Mary Okoroafor are a married couple who achieved financial independence by age 34, 100% debt-free, having paid off £380k mortgage. They are the founders of The Humble Penny and The Financial Joy Academy to help others achieve financial independence. Ken is a first-generation immigrant, Chartered Accountant, MBA and former CFO. Mary was born in London to hard working immigrant parents of Nigerian heritage. They live in South-east England with their two children.📚Get a copy of their book: https://amzn.to/3AhRPtDYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkAPVmQ4JF4ZWKVazSOmGFQInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thehumblepenny/?hl=en-gb☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com

In today’s podcast episode, the sisters weigh in on the uncomfortable truth about levelling up and leaving your friends behind. From unequally yoked friendships, bad behaviour and jealous friends, to self-awareness when YOU are the problem, the ladies dive into the hot tea on the truth of navigating these tense relationships!🇬🇭✈️ Come with us to Ghana: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters/84☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com00:00 💌 Welcome to the conversation sis 01:50 🥳 EXCITING Housekeeping Announcements 05:13 Ding Ding Dilemma: MY friend broke up with me! 17:49 Losing Friends When ‘Levelling Up’: Navigating ‘Unequally Yoked’ & Unreciprocal Friendships

In today's episode of TMS Hot Takes, your favorite online sisters discuss the riots currently taking place in various cities in the UK and how a colonial history, institutional racism, and xenophobia are exposing that the UK isn't as 'tolerant' as it brands itself to be.☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com

We’re joined by the renowned international speaker, entrepreneur, and multi-hyphenate Hayley Mulenda Record, to talk candidly about her evolution as a woman. From processing identity shifts in marriage, maintaining friendships through tough seasons, to going full throttle with ministry - you’re in for a treat in today’s episode of the To My Sisters podcast!💌 Introducing our guestHayley Mulenda is a Multi-Award Winning International Speaker, Author, Consultant and Change Agent who has spoken to thousands of people across the world sharing her story on how she turned her pain to purpose. She is also the founder of the Equipped Movement. LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/hayleymulendaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/hayleymulenda/☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com

Sit back, relax, and get ready to laugh with your favourite online sisters as they answer a juicy dilemma, discuss dating non-negotiables and whether you should be a 'pick me' for your man.TIMESTAMPS: 02:12 Ding Ding Dilemma: "I Threatened My Boyfriend and I Think He's Ending It..."15:29 Is there wisdom in being a 'pick me' for your man?28:30 Embracing your inner lover girl!☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com

As a community of ambitious women embarking on our ‘glowing & growing’ journeys, an important thing for us all to embrace is the fact that transformation happens in seasons. In this episode, your favourite online sisters discuss 5 lessons that will help you embrace the season you’re in and overcome comparison, insecurity and any fear you may have towards the future. 00:00 Welcome to the conversation sis01:24 Housekeeping announcements02:47 Ding Ding Dilemma: 'My family doesn't believe I'm single and happy!'16:02 Lesson 1: Some things take longer than expected26:08 Lesson 2: Come back to reality32:58 Lesson 3: Understand the root of your insecurities41:54 Lesson 4: Reclaim your attention52:34 Lesson 5: Look at the evidence ☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com

In this episode, your favourite online sisters dive into navigating the rising cost of having ‘community’ around you, the madness that is gossip blogs, the dark side of mukbang content, and President Joe Biden dropping out of the US election. Grab your tea or a glass of wine, because it’s a juicy one. Timestamps:00:00 Welcome to the conversation sis01:42 Community costs money...?! 21:26 The madness of gossip blogs32:00 The dark side of mukbang content41:59 Biden dropped out!☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com

In today’s episode, the sisters are joined by Shani Akilah, renowned author of her debut book, ‘For Such a Time As This’. From the reality of cultivating friendships as an adult and wading through the dusty dating streets of London, to the reality of health issues afflicting the Black community, tune in for a heartwarming and wholesome conversation💌 Introducing our guestShani Akilah is a Black-British Caribbean writer and screenwriter from South London. She is a book influencer, co - founder of the Nyah Network, a book club for Black women, and was a literary judge for the Nota Bene Prize 2023. Shani has a Masters degree in African Studies from Oxford University. For Such A Time As This is her debut short-story collection.Buy the book: https://amzn.to/4cO7nUxInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/_shaniakilahTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@_shaniakilah☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com