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Tiny Tots Defying The Odds

How Can Parents Find Support in the NICU Journey?

Season 1, Ep. 6

In this touching episode of "Tiny Tots Defying the Odds," host Danielle has a heartfelt chat with the incredible Alison Dunn.

Alison is not only the founder of Me Two Books but also a fierce mom to preemie twins. She opens up about her journey with such emotion, sharing the struggles with fertility she faced and the early arrival of her twins at 28 weeks. The conversation dives deep into the emotional whirlwind of having a child in the NICU, shedding light on the strength and openness needed by parents in these tough times.

But Alison's story is more than her own struggles; she's turned her experiences into a source of hope for others. She talks about how she started Me Two Books to fill a gap she noticed in children's literature about the NICU experience. Her books are more than just stories; they're a source of comfort and a way to connect for NICU families and twins.

Her words are a powerful reminder that even when times are tough, there's strength in fighting for what's dear to your heart.

And for those who've found comfort, inspiration, or a sense of belonging in this episode, we've got something special for you.

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The fertility journey and challenges (00:02:34)

The NICU experience (00:03:36)

Coping with infertility (00:07:39)

Leaving one twin in the hospital (00:11:09)

Importance of seeking support (00:13:11)

Triumphs in the NICU (00:15:44)

Transitioning home and twins' progress (00:18:04)

Witnessing Daily Miracles (00:20:06)

Inspiration Behind Me Two Books (00:20:50)

Expanding Me Two Books (00:23:13)

Impact of Me Two Books (00:25:40)

Future Goals for Me Two Books (00:26:45)

Balancing Roles (00:28:15)

Advice for Parents (00:31:03)

Stay Connected with Me Two Books (00:33:04)


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