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how should we handle finances? with Ellyce Fulmore
In this episode, Laura speaks with Ellyce Fulmore, author of the national bestseller Keep Finance Personal, a book dedicated to helping neurodivergent individuals approach their finances without shame!
Find Ellyce @ellyce.fulmore, at Queerd Co., and on her podcast, Dopamine Dollars!
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