Three's a Crowd

At this point, we are approaching Julie's due date, and the waiting is becoming agonising!In this episode we focus on what we hope will happen before, during and after the baby's arrival, and more importantly, what our expecations of each other are.

This is the episode that Julie was most nervous about publishing, because this is when Terence took the opportunity to really dig deep into what she is MOST anxious about this journey to our final decision.Also, it's the penultimate episode! Remember to listen to this episode and the others before we release the final episode next week!

So if three's a crowd, maybe this episode is telling that two is enough for us.Make sure you listen to the previous episodes before this one!In this episode, we talk about what happens when what you hope will happen doesn't happen.

A lot has happened since Episode 2...Yes, this episode was supposed to have Terence listing all the reasons that having another kid is a bad idea, but this is real life, and that means that sometimes what we plan to do doesn't happen.Since recording the last episode (The Pro List - listen to it here: https://tap.bio/@AfroDaddyCT), Julie came up with a creative and fun way for us NOT to make this decision, and this episode is about her idea, how Terence responded and what it means for our family going forward.

If you ask anyone about how they make decisions, they probably talk about some sort of Pros vs Cons list.Does that work when you're trying to decide to have a baby? Let's try it!In this episode, Julie takes the opportunity to fill up our "Pro" column as we try to work our through this SUPER complex conversation.

Welcome to the first episode of Three's a Crowd.In this episode we're digging into what has been going on in our lives that has got us to the point of even considering going for kid number 3.