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Have you been avoiding the conversation????You know the one... You keep putting it off because it feels too big, too uncomfortable, or too risky. Maybe it’s with your partner, a friend, a family member, a child, or even your boss.But avoiding it isn’t making things better.In this episode, we’re breaking down exactly how to have the hard conversation so you can walk away feeling clear instead of drained. You’ll learn:✔ How to prepare before you even start (including techniques to stay calm when things get tough)✔ How to open the conversation in a way that sets you up for success✔ How to stay in it when emotions run high✔ How to close it out in a way that moves things forward✔ How to follow up (if needed) to keep the conversation productiveBy the end of this episode, you’ll have a framework you can actually use—so you don’t just hope for a good outcome, you create one.Listen now and start having the conversations that matter.Resources & Links:🔹 Work with me – Ready to take this deeper? Click here to book a complimentary Discovery Call and find out how we can work together..🔹 Previous episode: One Shift to Create Major Change in Your Relationship🔹Link to your free guide! Click to learn EXACTLY WHAT TO SAY to start the conversationLoved this episode? Share it, tag me, or send me a message—I’d love to hear what resonated most with you!

The holidays are marketed as the ‘most wonderful time of the year,’ but for many of us, they’re filled with stress, awkward moments, and the impossible pressure to make everything perfect. In this episode, we’re flipping the script and focusing on what really matters—connection.I’m sharing my own holiday journey, from rebelling against the traditions I felt trapped by to finally finding balance. Plus, we’ll explore: • Why perfection is overrated and connection is everything. • How to navigate awkward moments with humor and curiosity. • Tips for managing family dynamics without losing your mind. • The small, meaningful moments that make the season special. • How to set boundaries and prioritize your joy, too.This episode is packed with real talk, laughs, and actionable tips to help you not just survive the season, but actually enjoy it. So grab a cup of cocoa—or your favorite holiday snack—and let’s get into it!What You’ll Learn in This Episode: • The truth about holiday expectations and why they set us up for disappointment. • Strategies for handling uncomfortable family conversations and dynamics. • Simple ways to prioritize connection over chaos. • How to embrace the season in a way that feels authentic to you.Thank you for listening! If this episode resonated with you, please share it with a friend or leave a review. I’d love to hear your favorite holiday moments—or how you’re finding ways to prioritize connection over perfection this year.Would you like any tweaks or additional resources added to the notes?

In today’s episode, we’re uncovering a powerful strategy for stopping arguments before they even begin. It’s all about recognizing that two perspectives can coexist—yours and your partner’s—and that both can be valid, even if they’re different. Too often, we get caught up in defending our experience as the only experience, but there’s a deeper connection to be found when we make room for both truths.In This Episode, You’ll Learn: • Why so many arguments stem from a lack of curiosity about each other’s experience • The concept of “two truths” and how it can shift relationship dynamics • A real-life example from Meg’s own relationship that illustrates the power of this mindset • Practical tips to help you stop an argument before it starts by listening without defendingListen now and discover a new approach that can bring more understanding and closeness to your relationship! • Connect with Meg on Instagram & Facebook • Check out this previous episode on breaking the cycle of repetitive fights If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review! Your feedback helps me reach more people who want real, lasting connection in their relationships.

In this episode, we dive into a crucial aspect of relationships—understanding the difference between reaction and response, or put another way, conscious action versus impulsive reaction. I break down what these terms really mean and how we often get caught up in reactions driven by our emotional triggers, which can lead to conflict and disconnection in our relationships.We explore emotional triggers using a relatable analogy: triggers are like pressure cookers—building over time until something small causes them to release all that pent-up pressure. I share my personal experience of being triggered in a conversation with my partner, and how understanding the underlying emotion helped me respond more thoughtfully.Tune in as I offer five practical tips for recognizing when you’re reacting instead of responding, and how you can use that awareness to create more intentional and supportive interactions with your partner. If you’ve ever found yourself feeling out of control in the heat of the moment, this episode is for you!Key Points: • The difference between reaction (emotion-driven) and response (awareness-driven) • Understanding emotional triggers and the pressure cooker analogy • My personal story of being triggered and how I learned from it • Five practical steps to shift from reacting to responding in your relationship • The importance of pausing, reflecting, and creating space between your emotions and your actionsPractical Tips: 1. Check Your Body – Notice physical signs of stress (tightness, clenching, racing heart). 2. Pause and Breathe – Practice breathing techniques to calm your nervous system. 3. Identify the Trigger – Ask yourself what just happened and why you feel this way. 4. Reflect Before Responding – Take time before responding to think clearly. 5. Practice Mindfulness – Incorporate habits like meditation and journaling to increase self-awareness.

In this episode I dive into how our perceptions and the stories we create in our minds can control our behavior and reactions in relationships. Often, we’re not responding to what’s actually happening but to the narrative we’ve built around it. I share a personal example from my relationship with Walt, where I realized I was reacting to a story rather than what was happening in the moment. I'll explore how to recognize when you’re caught in a narrative, why releasing that story is essential for closeness, and how you can step back into the present moment with your partner. I’ll also share a few practical tips to help you break free from those stories and foster a deeper connection.What You’ll Learn in This Episode: • How the mind creates stories that distort reality. • The impact these stories have on your behavior and reactions in relationships. • How to recognize whether you’re reacting to a story or the present moment. • Tips for letting go of your story to stay connected with your partner. • Why releasing your own narrative is key to building closeness and trust.Episode Highlights: • A personal example from my relationship with Walt and how I realized I was reacting to a story, not reality. • How to recognize the signs of being caught in a mental narrative. • Tips to let go of your story and stay present with your partner.Tune in and learn how to break free from the stories in your head and build a more present, connected relationship.Are you ready to improve your relationship???Click here to book a free discovery call, and we can talk about how you can begin TODAY!

In this episode, I’m sharing a personal story about a moment in my relationship that challenged me to rethink how I show up with affection and vulnerability. When Walt brought up how I was responding to his attempts for affection, my initial reaction was resistance and blame. I’ll walk you through the feelings that surfaced, how I realized my judgments were based on old memories and past fears, and the breakthrough that came from leaning into vulnerability.Here’s what we’ll cover: • The power of pausing and reflecting before reacting to your partner • Why past fears can build walls in your current relationship • How to shift from judgment to curiosity and openness • The importance of being present and vulnerable to build trust and closenessYou’ll leave this episode with a new perspective on how your past experiences may be impacting your ability to connect with your partner, and how practicing presence and vulnerability can help rebuild trust and intimacy.Listen now to learn how being present and vulnerable can lead to deeper connection in your relationship.Key Highlights: • The conversation with Walt that sparked this insight • Why we often feel defensive when our partner asks for more • How old memories can shape our present reactions • What happens when we choose vulnerability over protection If this resonates with you, and you’re ready to work on bringing more vulnerability and trust into your relationship, I’d love to help. Let’s have a conversation about how coaching can support you.Schedule a call with me:https://MegLamm.as.me/DiscoveryConnect with me on social:Facebook Insta TikTok: