The Tiny Big Joys

NEW SEASON ALERT: OUR FIRST EXPERT EPISODES DROP FROM 22 SEPTEMBER — THIS WEEK, THOUGH, IT'S JUST US.Seats swapped. This week founder Paula turns the microphone on host Olivia — because before she starts asking our experts your questions, we thought you should know she's figuring out the very same things you are.Olivia shares the first year she didn't see coming: a surprise pregnancy just weeks after getting engaged, the fear that motherhood would change her more than she was ready for, a birth that took a different route than planned, a breastfeeding start that hurt for nine weeks before it finally clicked, and a baby who woke every hour for four months. She also shares what turned out better than expected; the friendships, the joy of weaning, the confidence she never saw coming — and the best piece of advice she was given while pregnant.In this episode, Paula and Olivia talk about:— Expectations vs. reality: what Olivia imagined motherhood would be, and what it actually was— "I wasn't scared of the baby. I was scared of the change in myself" — losing and finding yourself in the first year— A painful breastfeeding start, the pride around formula, and the day it stopped hurting— Making peace with a birth that didn't go to plan— The sleep saga: hourly wakes, contact naps, gentle sleep training, and why she stopped asking "why me?"— Co-sleeping, and a bedtime routine that burns energy instead of calming it— The tiny things that turned out to be the big things: the first "bye-bye", the nursery pick-up cuddle— Why Olivia joined The Tiny Big Joys — and how to handle everyone's advice: "say thank you, then take it away"Whether you're pregnant, deep in the newborn fog, or a partner trying to understand what she's going through, this is the conversation that says: you're not doing it wrong.No fear-based messaging. No one-size-fits-all answers. Just warm, honest conversation that leaves you feeling more capable — not more anxious.The big shifts happen in the tiny moments of understanding. That's where the joy starts.Throughout this season we'll be talking about the first year with your baby, bringing in experienced experts and asking the questions that matter to you. If there's something you'd love to ask one of our experts, send it to us — it might just make an episode.Show notes, resources and the free Mum's Circle newsletter: thetinybigjoys.comFollow The Tiny Big Joys on Instagram and wherever you listen to podcasts.This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice. Please consult your healthcare provider with any personal health concerns.

NEW SEASON ALERT: OUR FIRST EXPERT EPISODES DROP FROM 22 SEPTEMBER — THIS WEEK, THOUGH, IT'S JUST US.This week we're doing something a little different. Instead of an expert, our host Olivia sits down with Paula — the founder of The Tiny Big Joys — to go right back to the beginning.Paula spent years travelling and building a career, and had just told her partner they weren't ready for a baby. Two weeks later she was pregnant. What followed was a pregnancy full of questions nobody was answering: bleeding, cramps, and a health service that could only say "wait and see." The only reassurance she could find was other mothers chatting online at two in the morning.She also carried a real fear of birth — the kind that made her cry at a friend's pregnancy four years earlier. In this episode she shares the single private birth class that changed all of it, and why understanding what actually happens in your body turned fear into trust.That gap in information became a podcast. It went to number one in the parenting category in Finland, was recommended by public health services, and five years after the last episode thousands of mothers were still listening. This is the story of why it's now in English.We also talk about something every new parent needs to hear: in a world of extremes and AI-generated answers, all you really want to know is what's normal. And as Paula puts it — if everything is average with your baby, everything is really good.In this episode:– The night that changed everything, and getting pregnant when nobody expected it (01:39)– Where a fear of birth really comes from (03:28)– The class that replaced fear with trust in her own body (06:57)– The pregnancy symptoms nobody talks about (08:11)– Why every mother should have access to this information (11:13)– What AI can never give a new mum (14:42)– "Average is really good" (15:50)– The good enough mum: you don't have to do everything (19:50)– Why you shouldn't compare yourself to anybody else (22:41)– The one thing to take away if you're pregnant right now (24:48)– Paula's tiny big joy (25:36)Full show notes at www.thetinybigjoys.com, where you'll also find Paula's book, The Tiny Big Joys: Pregnancy and Birth — Questions from New Parents Like You.Follow @thetinybigjoys on Instagram, and a brand new season is coming in September covering everything you need to know about the first year with your baby.

NEW EPISODES COMING IN SEPTEMBER, HIT FOLLOW TO ENSURE YOU WON'T MISS THEM.In this episode, we have Dr. Tracy Dalgleish as a guest: a clinical psychologist and couples therapist with nearly two decades of experience, and the author of I Didn't Sign Up For This.Tracy brings both deep clinical expertise and a refreshingly honest, evidence-based approach to one of the most under-discussed transitions in modern parenthood — what actually happens to your relationship after baby arrives. And this conversation is exactly the kind of grounded, practical, emotionally intelligent guidance that every new and expecting parent deserves to hear before the newborn stage hits.Whether you're currently pregnant, deep in the trenches of the first year, or quietly wondering how you and your partner got so disconnected so fast — this episode is for you.From the Gottman Institute's 67% statistic, to the mental load, resentment, identity shift, interdependence, Fair Play, postpartum intimacy, the touched out nervous system, birth trauma, conflict repair, and the three golden rules for thriving couples — Tracy and Olivia cover everything that gets felt but rarely spoken about in early parenthood.Show notes and all links mentioned today at www.thetinybigjoys.com@thetinybigjoys#thetinybigjoys #parentingpodcast #drtracydalgleish #newparents #postpartum #couplegoals #relationshipadvice #momlife #mompodcast #parentingtips #relationshipgoals #mentalhealthmatters #selfcare #coupleadvice #marriageadvice #pregnancypodcast #newbornlife #babiesofinstagram #postpartumjourney #clinicalpsychologist #couplestherapist #gottmanmethod #fairplaymethod #eveRodsky #postpartumrecovery #newparentadvice #relationshipafterbaby #parentingadvice #pregnancytips

NEW EPISODES COMING IN SEPTEMBER! HIT FOLLOW TO ENSURE YOU WON'T MISS THEM.In this episode, we have Anne Margolis as a guest: a certified nurse midwife (CNM) and holistic practitioner with 30+ years of experience, and the creator of the Love Your Birth online course.Anne brings both deep clinical expertise and an unshakeable belief in the body's natural capacity to birth — and this conversation is exactly the kind of honest, empowering, evidence-based guidance that every pregnant woman deserves to hear long before she walks into a delivery room.Whether you're planning a home birth, a hospital birth, hoping for natural labor, or open to an epidural — this episode is for you.From the shocking gap between US maternity outcomes and the rest of the developed world, to spinning babies, the resting phase of labor, coached vs instinctual pushing, fear work, doulas, and the gentle C-section — Anne and Annabella cover everything the system rarely takes the time to explain.Shownotes and all links mentioned today at www.thetinybigjoys.com@thetinybigjoys

NEW EPISODE WITH OLIVIA HINGE COMING IN SEPTEMBER! HIT FOLLOW TO ENSURE YOU WON'T MISS IT.Boobs, Bottles & Everything In BetweenThis episode is sponsored by Lola & Lykke. Visit lolalykke.com to find out more.Feeding your baby is one of the most talked-about topics in early parenthood — and somehow still one of the least well-supported. In this episode, we have Olivia Hinge as a guest: a certified lactation consultant (IBCLC) and NHS midwife, mother of three and an author.Olivia brings both clinical expertise and hard-won personal experience to every question — and this conversation is exactly the kind of honest, practical, non-judgmental support that so many new parents are desperately searching for.Whether you're breastfeeding, formula feeding, combination feeding, or still figuring it out, this episode is for you.Show notes and all links mentioned today at www.thetinybigjoys.com@thetinybigjoys

NEW EPISODES COMING IN SEPTEMBER! HIT FOLLOW TO ENSURE YOU WON'T MISS THEM.Registered dietician Lily Nichols joins The Tiny Big Joys to challenge the pregnancy nutrition advice most women are still receiving — food safety rules, gestational diabetes, prenatal vitamins, iron, and why egg yolks matter more than anyone tells you. She covers what conventional guidelines get wrong, what to actually eat, and the three things every pregnant woman should start doing today. Evidence-based and reassuring.If you found value in the show, the greatest compliment is a share. Please share this to a friend, or post about it in your social media, your word-of-mouth allows us to keep creating content like this. Thank you!www.thetinybigjoys.com | @thetinybigjoys

NEW EPISODES COMING IN SEPTEMBER! HIT FOLLOW TO ENSURE YOU WON'T MISS THEM.Certified sleep coach Lauren Weber joins The Tiny Big Joys to challenge everything you've been told about baby sleep — schedules, wake windows, self-soothing, sleep training. She explains what infant sleep actually looks like developmentally, how to tell a normal waking pattern from a real problem, and the simplest things an exhausted mom can do to get more rest. Honest and practical.If you found value in the show, the greatest compliment is a share. Please share this to a friend, or post about it in your social media, your word-of-mouth allows us to keep creating content like this. Thank you!www.thetinybigjoys.com | @thetinybigjoys