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Ep 55 | My Husband Abandoned Me, but I'm Choosing to be Better Instead of Bitter

Season 7, Ep. 55

We enter marriage with the belief that it’s a lifelong commitment, but it requires two people to work at it for it to be a successful union. In this episode we hear Ashley’s story of how there were signs of a deteriorating relationship, and how she finally came to accept it was over on Christmas day. We learn about the journey of healing, developing, and finding her worth on the other end of divorce. Heartbreak isn’t pleasant, but it can unlock clarity and wisdom that strengthens our relationship with God, who never leaves us.


How can we not fixate on the breakdown of a serious relationship, and move forward in a way that liberates us to be ready for the joy that’s waiting for us in the future? Watch as our hosts Rachel Calland and Sinead Minkah are joined by Ashley Andrew in the Magnify Studio for Ep 55 ‘My Husband Abandoned Me, but I'm Choosing to be Better Instead of Bitter’.



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