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Happy Mama Movement with Amy Taylor-Kabbaz

#252 | TAKE THE MIC | WITH FABIOLA BALANOS

Season 1, Ep. 257

Welcome to "TAKE THE MIC" - a brand new style podcast episode!


Every month I will be handing my microphone over to one of our phenomenal Mama Rising coaches somewhere in the world to host my podcast and share their story. 


This isn't me interviewing them - this is them HOSTING the show! 


They introduce themselves, share their story of Matrescence and motherhood, and the experiences of mothers in their region. 


They are the host, the expert, and the leader. 


And I couldn't be more excited to share this with you! 


Our first Take the Mic is Fabiola Balanos, Co-founder of the first consultancy company dedicated to Diversity, Equity, Inclusion and Wellbeing in Costa Rica.


Fabiola shares with us not only her own experience of becoming a mother and trying to balance her new identity with her passion for human resources, but also how she wants to support and change the way mothers balance work and motherhood in South America. 


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