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Defeating The Urges Of The Flesh Pt. 2

Season 1, Ep. 53

Welcome to another enlightening episode of The Ed Fernandez Show! We're diving deep into a topic that's both challenging and transformative: the nature of carnal Christianity.


Last week, we explored the difference between carnal and spiritual believers, referencing 1 Corinthians 3:1-3 to highlight the struggles of those who are still worldly and immature in their faith. Today, we continue that discussion by examining what it truly means to be a carnal believer and how we can move beyond this state.

We’ll delve into Galatians 5:19-21 to identify the acts of the flesh and understand why indulging even a little in these behaviors leads us away from the spiritual life God intends for us. From sexual immorality and impurity to fits of rage and envy, we’ll uncover how these actions, though seemingly less obvious, are just as damaging as more overt sins.


The episode will also address the regrets of wasted time and missed opportunities, particularly in personal relationships, and how these regrets can fuel our desire to break free from a carnal lifestyle. Through heartfelt reflections and real-life examples, we'll discuss the process of transformation that occurs when we allow the Spirit to guide us, rather than being controlled by our flesh.


Expect candid discussions on:

  • The difference between carnal and spiritual living.
  • The five categories of fleshly behaviors and their impact on our spiritual journey.
  • The role of grace, repentance, and the hard truth about our struggles with sin.
  • Practical steps for overcoming carnality and embracing a life led by the Spirit.


Whether you’re dealing with personal regrets, struggling with sin, or just seeking a deeper understanding of spiritual growth, this episode aims to equip and inspire you to take dominion over your flesh and walk more fully in the Spirit.


Tune in, reflect, and join the conversation as we work towards a life of becoming citizens of the Kingdom Of God.

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