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How Do We Sustain Equal and Happy Relationships?- Ruiarí Stewart (Happy Whole)

Ep. 11

Who? Ollie Scott, Junior Eldstål, Ian McKenzie and Ruiarí Stewart.

What/Why? We have an honest, open discussion with Relationship and Self Esteem therapist; Ruiarí Stewart.

We cover a lot in this one! From cheating, self esteem, vulnerability, openness, toxicity and Gas Lighting (!) all the way to the 8 elements that we can focus on to make us our best selves.

Whether you’re single, focusing on yourself, or in a 20 year relationship, there is something to learn from Ruiarí.

Check out his website here:

www.happy-whole.com

And his Instagram here:

www.instagram.com/Ruiari.Stewart

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