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1:1 with Toby Kraft - approaching career growth and goals

Season 1, Ep. 6

Toby Kraft–an Engineering Manager for a marketing automation company–joins us for this episode of The 1:1 Podcast.


We talk approaching 1:1s, goal setting, and career growth. We also answer a question we get asked a lot: why is this podcast called The 1:1 when there are two of you?


00:00 - Intro

02:39 - Yes person vs. complainer

05:59 - Approaching a 1:1 with someone who complains a lot

08:45 - Approaching career growth with someone when you can't engage them on an issue that's important to them

12:17 - When a manager is not invested in your success

13:41 - Why is this show called The 1:1 when there are two of you?

15:12 - When someone is disengaged from goal setting

20:51 - Useful goals vs company-mandated goals

26:13 - Companies following their values

30:44 - Managing through big company changes

40:01 - Final thoughts



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