The Winging It Life Podcast

What if some of the things we believe about ourselves aren't facts, but stories we've been telling ourselves for so long that we've started to believe they're inevitable?In this very spontaneous episode, recorded during the Lion's Gate Portal, I find myself thinking about limiting beliefs, manifestation, the Law of Attraction and the stories I've carried throughout my own life. I've always believed I'd need IVF, that I'd have to do things independently, and that I was destined to be wealthy. But how much of our reality is shaped by the beliefs we hold before we even make a decision?I also get very honest about our decision not to move house, why I was more willing to take the financial risk, and how the story we tell ourselves can influence the paths we choose.It's a bit of a ramble, but perhaps that's exactly what this podcast is supposed to be sometimes.What story are you telling yourself about who you are, and what if you decided to rewrite it?The Winging It Life Podcast explores manifestation, mindset, happiness, identity, personal growth and the messy process of building a life that feels good while it's still unfolding.

Lion's Gate Portal 2026: What is it, and how can you use it for reflection, manifestation and personal growth?In this short episode, I explore the meaning behind the Lion's Gate Portal and why, whether you believe in astrology or not, it can be a powerful excuse to pause, reflect and reconnect with how you want to feel. We talk about manifestation, journalling, mindset, happiness and why perhaps we're all searching for a feeling rather than a milestone.The Winging It Life Podcast explores happiness, identity, manifestation and the mindset shifts that help us build a life we love while it's still unfolding. Because happiness shouldn't have to wait.

For the last seven years, I always had a mission.Trying to conceive. IVF. Pregnancy. Motherhood. Then doing it all over again.Now, for the first time in a long time, that chapter is (mostly) over... and I've found myself asking a question I wasn't expecting: Who am I without the thing I've been chasing?In this episode, I reflect on what happens when the goal you've spent years working towards is finally achieved, why I think I've confused momentum with fulfilment, and how my thinking has evolved since I first started this podcast four years ago.This isn't an episode with a neat ending or five practical takeaways. It's more of a journal entry. A conversation about identity, ambition, and learning how to enjoy the chapter you're in while still dreaming about the next one.If you've ever found yourself asking, "I'll be happy when...", I have a feeling this one might resonate.

In this week's episode, I'm reflecting on something I don't think we talk about enough: the emotional cost of waiting.For me, infertility didn't just take time. It took my confidence, my identity, my joy, and my ability to enjoy the life I was already living. I share how, over three years of trying to conceive, my world became smaller and smaller without me even realising it — from putting career moves, holidays, exercise, friendships and even parts of myself on hold.This isn't really an episode about fertility. It's about what happens when we postpone our happiness until a future outcome arrives, and the moment I realised I couldn't keep living that way anymore.If you've ever found yourself saying, "I'll be happy when...", this episode is for you. ✨

Have you ever stopped to wonder whether the thing you're chasing is actually the feeling you believe it will give you?After seeing Gabby Bernstein speak, I found myself reflecting on one sentence that completely stopped me in my tracks: "The thing you want is getting in the way of the thing you need."In this episode, I explore why I don't think we're really searching for the promotion, the baby, the house or the book deal. I think we're searching for what we believe those things will make us feel: relief, peace, happiness and freedom.I share how this idea fits with my own journey through infertility, burnout and manifestation, why I believe healing starts with a willingness to feel differently, and how we can begin creating the feelings we're longing for before life looks exactly how we imagined.Because perhaps the real magic isn't getting the thing you want. Perhaps it's learning how to feel good while your life is still unfolding.

In this episode, I share what happened when I decided to stop focusing on what wasn't working and start focusing on raising my vibration again. From gratitude practices and visualisation to revisiting some of my favourite manifestation teachers, I've found myself back in that feeling of possibility, and things have started moving.I talk about the concept of Ask, Believe, Trust, Receive, why I think the "believe" part is actually the hardest, and share some of the manifestations that have shown up recently (including a washing machine within 24 hours, a family holiday, and some exciting career developments).Whether you're a manifestation sceptic, a secret believer, or fully in your own manifesting era, this episode is a reminder that sometimes the biggest shift happens when you stop trying to control everything and start allowing yourself to believe that good things might actually be on their way. ✨

Have you ever asked for a sign?In this episode, I explore the role signs have played throughout my life, particularly during the most uncertain moments. From repeated numbers to unexpected coincidences, I share why I started asking for signs, what they gave me, and why I've become less interested in whether they're "real" and more interested in how they make me feel.This isn't an episode about convincing you to believe in anything. It's about hope, trust, and finding comfort when life feels uncertain. Because sometimes the sign itself isn't the point. Sometimes it's simply the reminder that everything might just be okay. ✨

In this episode, I explore one of the biggest mindset shifts I've learned over the last few years: that two things can be true at once.You can deeply want something to change and still enjoy your life today. You can be grateful and disappointed, hopeful and frustrated, excited and scared. Using my own experience of infertility, motherhood, and the tendency we all have to postpone happiness until the next milestone, I talk about how I stopped putting my life on hold and started living again.If you've ever found yourself saying, "I'll be happy when...", this episode is for you.