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Our culture’s influence on our relationship with money, with Selina Flavius, founder of Black Girl Finance

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With money habits formed by age 7, our culture and formative backgrounds undoubtedly play an important role in shaping our attitude towards money. The question is: as adults, how can we decode what we have subconsciously been taught and build a positive mindset towards managing our money?  


Joining me today is Selina Flavius, finance coach and founder of Black Girl Finance - the digital platform providing a safe space for Black women to get comfortable talking about money.


Black graduates are paid 9% less than their white counterparts. In this episode, Selina shares the long-term impacts of the ethnic pay gap, and how we can tackle it.


We also take a look at what we can do to aid our financial security during the pandemic, and why Selina believes personal finance is the missing piece in self-development. 


Selina’s book 'Black Girl Finance, Let’s Talk Money’ is out now. It’s a fantastic resource where she shares her best financial tips as well as her personal stories, goal-setting exercises and straight-talking advice. 


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 Selina shared some resources in this episode. All the links are below:



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