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How to Find Purpose After a Death? With Selina Flavius

If discussions about death are sensitive for you, feel free to skip this one.


In this episode, we are joined by Selina Flavius, the powerhouse behind Black Girl Finance. Selina shares her personal journey of unexpected loss in early 2022, when her fiancé passed away.From abruptly shifting wedding plans to not even being welcomed to his funeral and navigating the aftermath, Selina graciously shares her story of loss and recovery, how she found purpose after her loss and the profound impact it had on her financial values and priorities.


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