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Nas Tavakoli-Far: An Exploration of Gender Dynamics
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Gender dynamics are a very complex issue that we’ve only really begun to grapple with over the last several decades. Nas Tavakoli-Far makes studying gender roles and how we all communicate and interact with each other one of her main focuses, and she’s learned a great deal through her discussions. She shares her ideas on that, life in an immigrant family, media, and much more.
Nas Tavakoli-Far is a journalist and host/producer of The Gender Knot Podcast. She also presents and hosts for the BBC World Service radio. You can follow her on Twitter @NTavakoliFar
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