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UNBOXED on Purpose

Built for Resilience

Season 5, Ep. 65
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YouTube Description: Built for Resilience | Joanna Avin| UNBOXED on Purpose Ep. #124 @favoredbythefatherministries

Host: Barbara A. F. Brehon


What does it truly mean to be Built for Resilience?

In this episode of UNBOXED on Purpose, Rev. Dr. Barbara A. F. Brehon welcomes back Emotional Intelligence Strategist Joanna Avin to explore how emotional awareness, healing, and spiritual growth work together to build resilience in every area of life.


This conversation addresses:

  • Emotional intelligence and faith
  • Breaking unhealthy cycles
  • Healing unresolved wounds
  • Leadership resilience in ministry and the marketplace
  • Setting boundaries and sustaining growth


If you desire to grow stronger in your faith, leadership, and emotional health, this episode will meet you where you are and challenge you to move forward with intention.

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✨ You are UNBOXED on Purpose.

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šŸŽ¬ YouTube Chapters – Built for Resilience (Adjust timestamps to match my final edited runtime)

00:00 Opening & Welcome – UNBOXED on Purpose

00:45 Introducing Joanna Avin (Return from Episode 112)

02:00 Our Connection & Relationship

03:15 What Does It Mean to Be Built for Resilience?

05:30 Emotional Intelligence & the Work of the Holy Spirit

08:10 Resilience Through Adversity vs. Unhealthy Cycles

11:20 Unboxing Unhealthy Patterns – Awareness & Community

14:10 Staying Anchored in Faith During Challenges

17:00 Healing, Heart Work, and Confronting What Is Avoided

20:30 Leaving Toxic Environments & Seeking Help

23:10 Leadership Resilience in Ministry & Marketplace

26:00 Boundaries, Identity, and People-Pleasing

28:45 Avoiding Burnout, Emotional Suppression, and Fatigue

31:30 The Power of Counsel & Community

33:45 Final Wisdom – Letting Perseverance Complete Its Work

36:00 Closing Charge & Encouragement

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Rev. Dr. Barbara A. F. Brehon

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Favored by the Father Ministries

P. O. Box 1114, Tappahannock, Virginia 22560

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