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Dennis Mellen on Leadership
Welcome to the Unapologetic Third Act podcast! Today we have an inspiring conversation with retired Air Force Lieutenant Colonel and leadership expert Dennis Mellon. Dennis shares his incredible journey from a career in aviation to becoming an internationally recognized speaker and coach. We'll discuss leadership, overcoming obstacles, and pursuing your goals and dreams.
Dennis Mellen brings years of leadership experience as a retired Air Force Lieutenant Colonel, a twenty-eight-year retired Alaska Airlines Fleet Captain in charge of 650 pilots and 40 instructors, and a bestselling author. He is an internationally recognized speaker, an executive leadership coach, and a certified athletic mental performance master. His target audience is future as well as established leaders. He attended numerous Air Force leadership schools and is a graduate of the USAF Academy. A seasoned speaker whose goal is to bring education, inspiration, and entertainment to various leaders looking to connect the culture with the vision.
Key Takeaways:
- Navigating career transitions and finding purpose after 50
- Creating a speak-up culture and open communication in the workplace
- Adapting to change and innovating to achieve organizational vision
- Learning from mistakes and persevering to achieve goals
- Developing inclusive work environments and fostering innovation
- The importance of servant leadership and ongoing learning
- Aligning individual goals with organizational goals
- Finding mentors to aid in leadership development
Connect With Dennis
Phone: 425-681-8652
E-Mail: dennis@fullthrottleleadership.com
https://fullthrottleleadership.com/
Book: Takes More Than Heart: https://www.amazon.com/Takes-More-Than-Heart-Opportunities/dp/1525591827
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26:37||Ep. 11After a hiatus, I'm back with an insightful conversation. Today, I sit down with renowned entrepreneur, author, and modern elder Chip Conley to explore the transformative potential of midlife. As the founder of the Modern Elder Academy, Chip has dedicated himself to helping people reimagine and repurpose themselves during this often misunderstood stage of life.I just had the privilege of spending a week at the MEA in Santa Fe with Chip, Liz Gilbert, and Dr. Terri Trent for a workshop called "Awakening Magic." Through his journey of reinvention and the inspiring stories he's witnessed at the academy, Chip shares a refreshing perspective on aging - one that embraces the wisdom, emotional intelligence, and a sense of purpose that can blossom in the second half of life."Midlife is not a crisis; it's a chrysalis - that gooey in-between stage where you transform," Chip explains. He's dedicated himself to helping people see midlife as a time of possibility, not struggle. "If you feel like there's nothing in your life you're a beginner at, then you're fading into the distance. You need to try something new."Whether you're navigating your own midlife transitions or seeking to support loved ones during this pivotal time, this conversation offers a roadmap for approaching midlife with curiosity, courage, and a renewed sense of possibility. Chip and I dive deep into the keys to thriving in the "third act" of life, from cultivating a supportive community to adopting an "age fluid" mindset that allows you to embrace all the ages you've been and will be.Chip shares in his new book, "Learning to Love Midlife," there are 12 reasons why life gets better with age - from our growing emotional intelligence to our increasing sense of spiritual curiosity. "Time becomes an increasingly valuable resource as you get older. How you use that time becomes more important."I encourage you to check out Chip's daily blog at MEAwisdom.com for a "micro-dose of wisdom" to inspire your own midlife journey. You can also follow him on LinkedIn and explore "Learning to Love Midlife" to embrace the opportunities of this transformative life stage. Lean in and let Chip and I guide you towards a more purposeful, fulfilling second half of life.:Show Notes: [0:00] Introduction to Chip Conley, founder of the Modern Elder Academy and renowned expert on midlife transitions.[0:45] Chip's personal journey of reinvention after a "midlife meltdown" in his late 40s and how that led him to create the MEA.[3:15] Reflections on the "Awakening Magic" workshop Chip, Liz Gilbert, and Dr. Terri Trent led at the MEA in Santa Fe. Chip describes the sense of "moral beauty" and human blossoming he witnessed.[6:20] The evolving concept of "midlife" - expanding from 40-60 to 35-75 as longevity increases globally.[8:15] The importance of cultivating community and rites of passage during midlife, which the MEA aims to provide.[11:30] Advice for younger generations preparing for their own midlife transitions, including the importance of curating your own path and thinking episodically about your life.[16:45] Chip's new book "Learning to Love Midlife" and the 12 reasons why life gets better with age.[20:00] Chip's insights on "age fluidity" and how embracing all the ages you've been and will be can unlock new possibilities.[21:30] The surprising lesson Chip has learned about himself - growing back into being more of an introvert after leading workshops.[22:15] Chip's favorite question to ask: "What parts of your life are you a beginner these days?"10. Stop Faking Fine with Dana Lewis
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23:07||Ep. 7My fierce and fearless listeners,Get ready for an inspiring episode of The Unapologetic Third Act podcast featuring Dr. Christine Van Horn, a remarkable woman redefining her life's journey. From a healthcare and emergency management career to becoming an author, teacher, and speaker, she's embraced her third act with determination and passion. Dr. Chris is also the host of the Timeless Truths podcast. Tune in as we explore her path, the importance of pursuing your passions unapologetically, and practical advice for planning your fulfilling third act. Don't miss this empowering conversation!About Dr. Chris:- Began career as an x-ray technician, nuclear medicine technologist and radiation therapist - Transitioned into a 20-year career as an emergency manager at a government research lab- Now focuses on teaching values, life skills, and biblical principles through her writing and speakingTimeless Truths is available on all platforms:Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/timeless-truths/id1695920504Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/0TU2Tj6gmTY3tuwiU3DrUHYou can follow/reach Dr. Chris:Website: www.drchris.coEmail: chris@drchris.coFB: https://www.facebook.com/wisdom.drchrisHer book “Teach Your Children Timeless Truths In Uncertain Times” is available on Amazon or her website.6. Julie Brams, LMFT, on Earth-Centered Psychology
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37:15||Ep. 5Ladies and gentlemen welcome to the Unapologetic Third Act podcast, where we honor and champion the remarkable stories of reinvention, unwavering resilience, and the relentless pursuit of passion in the later chapters of life. Today is extraordinary because our special guest is author Debbie Weiss!With over five decades of navigating life's toughest challenges, Debbie stands as an unyielding expert in the art of chasing your dreams, no matter the hurdles. She's the illustrious author of the best-selling memoir "On second thought, maybe i can" and a celebrated co-author in the Amazon bestseller "Heart Whispers." But hold on, there's more to this inspirational force!Debbie is also a savvy entrepreneur, skillfully managing an insurance agency and curating her online haven, "A Sprinkle of Hearts." She's the dynamic host of the "Maybe I Can" podcast, a captivating, inspirational speaker, and a devoted family caregiver and mother—she indeed wears many crowns.What makes Debbie's story all the more compelling is her triumphant journey over limiting beliefs and fears, paving the way for her to embrace her best life. Her life's passion? It's as clear as day—to help and inspire others to do the same, live life to the fullest, and chase their dreams with unbridled enthusiasm.Debbie loves to laugh, dance like nobody's watching, immerse herself in the world of books, and keep her spirit active.Get ready, dear listeners, to embark on a thrilling conversation with Debbie Weiss. Her story will uplift your spirits, inspire your dreams, and remind you that the Unapologetic Third Act is where life truly shines. So, without further ado, let's dive into this refreshing episode with our exceptional guest, Debbie Weiss!In today’s episode, we talk about: Life challenges, caregiving, and writingReinvention and living life unapologetically in one's third actTaking actionWriting a book despite fears and obstaclesE+R=OOvercoming self-doubt and taking responsibility for one's lifeReinvention and overcoming obstaclesMindset, self-care, and setting boundariesPersonal reinvention and coachingVisit Debbie’s Website:https://www.debbierweiss.com/Listen to Debbie’s Podcast:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/maybe-i-can-with-debbie-weiss/id1676123222Follow Debbie: https://www.facebook.com/groups/maybeicanPlease click here to join the Maybe I Can free FB Communityhttps://www.instagram.com/debbie.r.weiss/I invite you to follow The Unapologetic Third Act podcast wherever you are listening so you can catch all the episodes. Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-unapologetic-third-act/id1695921424Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1AdPck4Dfe5hosGSgWfuR4?si=4a8afe2934a849cb4. Clarity Ninja - Tracey Watts Cirinio
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